Would you be interested in dating a woman that wears revealing clothes or would you be turned off by it?

[alice55]

I'm curious to know, many men claims they don't like it but at the same time many men do date those women then ask them to dress more modest while some others just refuse to engage with them at all, in which case are you?

Interested in dating them and would not ask them to change.

Not interested at all and would ignore them / only stare

Interested in dating them but would ask them to wear more modest clothes

Only interested for short terms / non serious

Updates

10 mo

This is what I mean by reveling clothes : www.google.com/url

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[Lliam]

It depends on what one considers revealing. It's more about looking good versus low class and ghetto, as if you are advertising for sex.

I see nothing at all wrong with form fitting clothes, miniskirts, short shorts, high heels, crop tops, braless, push up bra and cleavage.

Women's clothes are designed to accentuate their figures. A woman who looks good feels good about herself and vice versa.

I think it's great when women are proud of their boobs, legs and figures. It shows self confidence. That's the kind of woman I prefer, as long as she has good character and values, self esteem, is picky about who she chooses for a partner, and wants a monogamous, sexual relationship with a man who shares those values.

[alice55]

good opinion

[Lliam]

Thanks, Alice.

[lightbulb27]

I'd have to see that to judge but never been drawn to that person and might matter what she says. I like modest.

It helps to see it's all manipulation and maybe... vanity?

It's not that there is something wrong with that woman, it's just not behavior I admire I'd rather go for different character and sense of self dignity. It may be some are just wired different emotionally and that's ok, some are movement oriented and many get stuck in front of the mirror.

I've noted the new styles are dresses so short if a person is short, they will see up them. don't know what they are thinking.

[Anonymous]

I don’t dress like that, but it wouldn’t bother me if someone I dated did (I’m bi). I’m sure most of them do it for fashion or comfort reasons.

[lilBigPotato]

Everyone has their own taste, if someone doesn't like what I wear or thinks they can dictate my outfits, then we aren't meant for each other

[MrOracle]

Most of those clothes in the links I don't consider OVERLY revealing, but some of them also need to be appropriate for the area/occasion. For example, summertime in California or Miami or Texas is going to mean that everyone is wearing lighter, less-covering clothes, and that's fine.

As a woman, you know what "revealing clothing" means: tits half-way out (or sometimes more) of a low-cut top, tops that are see-through, skirts barely wider than a belt, or clothes so tight everyone can tell if your pubic hair is shaved or not. Yoga pants may technically provide full coverage, for example, but when they are so tight that every detail of your ass and camel toe are visible to the world, that's still "revealing."

When women dress like that, the vast majority of men instantly put them in the "only good for casual sex" category, and would never take that girl seriously as a relationship partner. Yes, they often find it sexy, and, yes, many would want to bang her, so, yes, it will get her a lot of (sexual) attention, but it's not going to keep the guy around.

For most men, if your woman is dressing like she's single and looking for sexual attention, that's a huge red flag and a turn-off. I know there are a few guys who like it when their girl dresses that way, but first, that's the exception, and second, many of those particular guys don't really take their relationship seriously anyway - it's usually more of a "situationship" than a real relationship.

One of the biggest values a woman can bring to a man is his EXCLUSIVE access to her body, and that includes visually. If everyone can see what she's got to offer, then what she has to offer loses a lot of its value, and she's going to be treated accordingly.

[HawkPerception]

If she wears revealing clothing, it's an immediate red flag for me. I swipe left (pass) on like 95% of women on dating apps because they either dress provocatively, wear too much makeup, or identify as liberal. It's extremely uncommon to find girls that don't have any of those 3 traits.

Don't get me wrong. Girls who dress provocatively always catch the eye. I'm a straight dude. But it's not what I want in a girl. If she's able to present herself like that to the world, then she's would never really be my girl and my attention would never be enough to satisfy her.

Girls who wear flowy dresses catch the eye much more. They're elegant and feminine. They don't scream liberal. Quite the opposite. They're usually very feminine women.

[βιυεsκγs]

I tick all those 3 boxes, recently went on a date with a guy, still got slow faded by him:( he was alpha , we both had similar views on feminism but this still happened:(

[HawkPerception]

@βιυεsκγs Hmm, how about makeup? Do you wear a lot of that? If so, you likely may come across as a materialistic girl. Also, if what you're saying is the case, I think it's more about your choice of man than the type of girl you are. See, the thing about "alpha" men that make high income, over 6 foot, look good, and are smooth in the way they talk, is they're usually the top 5% of men that the majority of females want. They have option overload with females, and it's never hard for them to get with girls. That's why they don't care to settle down.

You can't have everything. If you have all of those qualities in a man AND they're interested, loyal, and do not "fade slowly," you've found yourself a unicorn.

[βιυεsκγs]

So is the answer to not go for a top 5% man?

[alice55]

flowy dress can have cleavage and be shorts and revealing though?

[HawkPerception]

@alice55 Yes, truthfully, they can. But there are tasteful types and non-tasteful types.

Here's a single example of a tasteful type:

https://ibb.co/4ZtQVF3D

[HawkPerception]

@βιυεsκγs Honestly, yes. Don't go for a top 5% man unless you're a top 2% girl (I'm ball-parking, but I mean don't go for them unless you have traits that stand out among the majority of women and you bring a lot to the table). Their option overload will keep them looking and they usually have the mentality of "Why would I ever settle? I'm enjoying fucking every girl on the block."

Either that or date a top 1% man. These men are basically top 5% men with added loyalty and morals.

[HawkPerception]

@βιυεsκγs But truthfully, the majority of women do not qualify for those kinds of men

[HawkPerception]

@βιυεsκγs Here, a song for you:
www.youtube.com/watch

[SixFootSexy]

@HawkPerception
A Bo classic!

[βιυεsκγs]

It hard for me to say where I am in regards to percentage. I always dress feminine, long natural hair, I’m slim, wear natural makeup, dress classy and in a vintage style. Only thing is I’m not very career oriented

[HawkPerception]

@βιυεsκγs Yeah no worries, I was just ballparking numbers anyways. From what you've mentioned, that's all good, even the part about not being career oriented. Most guys prefer that to my knowledge. I would say there's more to it than that though. Personality matters the most. It doesn't matter how physically attractive or traditional you are if you don't have an attractive personality.

I'm not calling YOU this, but there are a lot of women like that, who tend to be more on the materialistic, entitled, and narcissistic side that think the world owes them for being beautiful. That's a pretty big turn off for most men.

[βιυεsκγs]

I don’t really think I’m entitled to be honest. I mean, I want a guy who makes a decent salary so that I’m comfortable, that’s for both me and any future children we have. It’s more so I can feel secure. I try to be pretty humble. I think I’m pretty. I curl my hair, I wear a flower in it. I want a masculine man to love

[HawkPerception]

@βιυεsκγs Well, the good news is there are plenty of guys like that in the world. You'll find one for you one day. However, how much you consider a "decent salary" to be will heavily affect how soon that may be, if even at all.

[βιυεsκγs]

So you think there’s a lot of masculine guys? Where can I find them? I’m pretty shy tbh, get scared to speak to guys 🤣 And what do you mean by the last sentence?

[Finchie40]

Yea I don’t mind if she is loving and loyal and caring to me that’s all that matters

[AviatorTom]

If I was dating... I'm married so I'm not... I wouldn't mind if she's wearing revealing clothes when I pick her up, though I might ask her to be more modest on our next date

[Kaneki05]

Of course I would date her and want her not to change, though if she wants to herself then that's no issue either.

Men who are turned off by it you'll find are hypocrites and have a controlling complex, and even more so the guys who ask them to change. Nvm artificial morals.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

You sound like a typical feminist supporting simp.

[Kaneki05]

Great point, you really changed my perspective and added a lot of value with your reply.

[alice55]

theyre mostly insecure dude or those who have a lot of issue in themselves or with women in general holding bad view of women becuase of their lack of self worth

[Kaneki05]

Does always seem to be the case

[McLlovin]

Thats simp behavior. But to each his own. Women actually like men that don’t bend over backwards and respectfully tell them what to not do. Thats what you call masculine energy

[OneViewpoint]

I like a woman with a sense of style. If she can pull off revealing clothing in a tasteful way, I love it. If she just looks trashy all the time in hooker heels, fishnets, and a pushup bra no, I'll pass.

[alice55]

When I meant revealing it was more in the sense of a sundress with cleavage or a short skirt with a cropped blouse rather than this, hooker looks is not revealing is just hooker looks, I think in America you have a very extreme view of revealing clothes in France just wearing a short dress or having a crop top is considered as too revealing by many

[OneViewpoint]

You left it completely undefined and ambiguous in your question. Now that you've defined it yes, I love a woman with a tasteful sense of style and femininity. A sundress is a good example. So is a short skirt with the right overall outfit. No, I wouldn't ask her to change. I'd ask her to keep amazing me. If she attracts attention, I'm not gonna be shocked or insecure about it. Why wouldn't guys notice?

[fonduegirl]

Exactly

[alice55]

Well I did not think I needed to precise? Nobody in the street look like a hooker, but after I'm not American, I"m French and here women dress a lot more modest than American on average so it absolutely did not cross my mind one single second I had to be clear / precise about what I meant, also in France what's considered revealing is more modest than what American consider revealing

[Anonymous]

I would be interested and not ask them to change.

Reason why I wouldn’t ask them to change, I knew what I was signing up for lmao.
If a woman liked to wear sweaters in Winter and a man chose to date her then he’ll have to bear the sweaters even if he doesn’t find it appealing. Same logic applies.

[alice55]

People are free to ask something of their partner then their partner can decide if they want to change or not

[Opinion Owner]

Totally true. I meant in terms of dressing day to day.
When we take into consideration an addiction like smoking or any substance abuse, the partner might want them to seek help rather than just being down their personal health and hygiene. That is fine and admirable since they care so much.
There are exceptions totally.

[msc545]

I think I would be interested in dating them only to find out what they're thinking was in general about wearing such clothes. I could easily find that out without asking directly. The problem with dating a woman like this is that she often attracts the unwanted attention of other men which in turn can lead to confrontations and difficult situations. Such women often attract so much attention that the men that are with him get into fights with other men regarding the woman. It's simply not worth the risk since these types of confrontations in turn very ugly very quickly.

[OneViewpoint]

WTF? Where do you hang out. I've had guys drool over a woman I was with but I've never had one step over the line. On the other hand, I've had drunk husbands try to pick a fight with me when their wives kept paying attention to me while I was trying to deflect her. A group of people who know me told the guy he was about to die. It took a few minutes but he finally listened to them. I never had to leave my seat. Dude, your problem is with your wife and her friends. Do not bring your shame to my doorstep and lay it at my feet. I don't fuck around. No mercy.

[alice55]

Usually nobody get into a fight for this, if you're not insecure just ignore the guy making comment and that's it.

[alice55]

@OneViewpoint Some men are ways to eager to get into a fight for no reasons it's crazy

[FunkyMonkee]

Interested, not for sexual reasons but, to the point that they SHOULD just wear what they feel like wearing!! This IS SUPPOSED to be the land of the free!!
I just finished watching a movie from 1962 that featured 6 or 7 topless women (they were supposed to be mermaids) swimming around in the ocean for at least half the movie and I saw absolutely nothing wrong with them going topless! If nothing else, it makes them more beautiful!! I never understood why society thinks female tits should be covered up! There was a guy in the water the whole time and they made him cover his tits!! If you wanna walk around topless, or even naked, or in a see-through bikini in public, you SHOULD have EVERY RIGHT to!!

https://youtu.be/5b8utHBk3aQ?si=0iv4m4HMdSvQLvDl

[Purpleronnie]

I would say that I find it far more appealing when it’s left more for my imagination than on show , not that I spend wondering. I mean where is the mystery when it’s all hanging out the top or bottom or via skin tight clothes where a pimple would be visible at 10 paces.


Eye catching these women will always be to the majority of men , myself included but not necessarily for the ‘right’ reasons !!

[alice55]

And yet you wouldn't look at a modest woman in the street your eyes would wander it's quite crazy

[Purpleronnie]

My eyes fall upon many woman , I can’t not see them or choose which my eyes see. , where did I say I wouldn’t look at a modest woman?

[blueonblack22]

I might still be interested in a fling but I would see this as a red flag for anything long term.

Women who dress provocatively always claim it’s about “confidence” or some bs. But in reality it’s the exact opposite. It’s really about wanting attention which is a form of insecurity. That’s a real problem.

[RavVid]

Provocatively dressed = good chance of me getting in.

Provocatively dressed = good chance lots of guys have got in. One more won't hurt mindset. Even better chance I get in.

Provocatively dressed = good chance other guys get in after me.

Conclusion: take it while it is going but don't invest.

Also don't try to change a Leopards spots. Get in and get out.

[Miristheiss]

No I wouldn't have been. I was going to marry a woman with high morals and character. A virtuous woman who was seeking marriage. Not a feminist seeking a career, an immoral woman seeking attention and attempting to sexually temp men that she wasn't in a relationship.

This is the kind of women, feminism and the degeneracy of the sexual revolution puts out now. Partying, drinking, being provocative, being a temptress for all the men to see and leer at and to hook up with.

A good woman with class and high character was what I was seeking.

Stuff like what you describe is evidence she wasn't such a woman.

[alice55]

that have absolutely nothing to do with it, you can dress in those clothes and still want to be. in a marriage and have children, no man are attracted to matronly woman and christian men and such and often very turned on by only fan model and pornstar so it's kinda hypocritical

[Sunrising]

I like all females preferably undressed, but also dressed too 🤣

[Sunrising]

I like females that dress smartly, but I think it depends on the occasion, and I'm sure females know how to dress better than me.

[Sunrising]

dress themselves better than me.

[neilsmart]

what do you normally wear on a night out?

[Sunrising]

@neilsmart depends on the night out.

[neilsmart]

what would the difference be?

[Sunrising]

@neilsmart depends on where I was going, and who with.

[alice55]

oh well it's better to be dressed when going out of the house xD

[Sunrising]

Well if you have to wear something, a short skirt and crop top would be very nice lol.

[Joshydavid25]

The pics you posted aren't bad.. I guess I wouldn't be too opposed to a woman who dressed like those.. But in general, I wouldn't date or marry a woman who dressed revealing.. It shows that she'll look for attention wherever she can get it.. It's just not good character at all.. Most women seem to dress somewhat conservatively though.. So that's good..

[KostasKouvalis]

Not necessarily "interested", like I don't go deliberately seeking them out, but revealing is better than being covered from head to toe, like a Muslim girl. And if THOSE are what you consider "revealing", then definitely revealing. Girls who cover are usually prudes, religious fanatics or TOO conservative.

I've seen far more revealing than that, but whatever is appropriate for the enviorment. On the beach though, one piece suit is definitely a turn off.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I like women to dress age appropriate if I would date them.

Mini is fine if it is just above her knees and shorts inside if you want me to be specific

Micro I would be uncomfortable in public.

Hyprocrite I may sound but I would like to watch random girl in revealing clothes..

[Med_guy1978]

I love a girl in revealing outfits, but there's a time and place for everything. A girl can look sexy and 'revealing' wearing a knee length skirt and longer skirt/dress with hot shoes or a revealing top. I don't judge a girl by how she dresses but how she behaves and I'm not jealous about guys checking her out or approaching her. It's down to her to inform the person she is taken, you can't blame her for someone approaching her or the guy let's say for trying.

[jshm2]

Depends. Its not simply about the clothes, but looking stylish in them.

A lot of women wear "revealing" thinking it makes them look "stylish".

[alice55]

I think they wear revealing to look sexy more than anything

[RedInnocent69]

They’re only not interested because they’re not in control and get jealous of the attention from others not being given to them. Best to avoid

[alice55]

the men? I agree it's best to avoid the insecure one, they only create trouble in the long terms

[RedInnocent69]

Always drama with boys

[JesseP1nk]

If i was dating a girl and she wears revealing clothes that is a red flag. im like "why she still looking for attention if we are dating?" That is disrespectful. Same way if you are dating a guy and he flirts with other girls in front of you.

[dwreborn]

In certain circumstances I would not care if she wore them all the time I could see a problem going out to dinner or dancing is fine but at work and family cookouts and stuff you gotta tone it down some

[mysteriousNicholas]

I voted B because there's "revealing" versus "that's just trashy" - 🗑️ as Mr Clyde Shelton reminds us, it's a slippery slope, lol out of context ❄️🌨️ 🏔️ - either too much skin shown as cleavage or not enough cleavage

[mysteriousNicholas]

And sometimes it's the style I'd criticise more and offer better suggestions - "it's not about the skin on display for cleavage or legs of a short skirt, it's if I think the skirt looks trashy versus a nicer tennis skirt" - examples

[mysteriousNicholas]

@alice55 I hope I've been of use

[Jack122112]

A woman who wears revealing clothing is looking for male attention. I want nothing to do with a woman who is actively seeking male attention in that regard.

She is automatically low value if she's on display for the village. can't make a queen out of a woman who promotes herself promscuously.

[aceleon]

depends the level of revealing but.

NO.

i would only pursue sex with them, nothing else (not that i ever pursue anything else but even if i did it would be this way)

[TallBlonde5]

I don’t have a problem if she does. To me she confident and comfortable in her own skin.

[Anonymous]

Please note… your poll is skewed because the majority of males on this site are pathetic virgins and would fuck dirt if it had a hole in it.

a guy who can get women will use slutty girls and eventually settle with a girl who has morals.

[bowenw]

I’m more interested in her personality. She can wear whatever she wants.

[LiamJHayden]

I live at the beach so my definition of revealing might differ from that used by others.

[alice55]

Surely, I did post pics if you can see them?

[Flower7]

You live AT the beach? Must be nice.

[molonski2]

Would all depend on definition of the word revealing..

[alice55]

it's in the pics I post in the update

[Anonymous]

Yes, but it depends on what kind of revealing clothes.

If it's something sporty, casual or edgy - Yes.

I like girls who wear crop tops, short shorts, socks & sneakers, ripped jeans, and stuff like that.

I don't like those who wear high heels, slutty skirts, stockings or fishnets, tons of makeup etc.

[alice55]

Why if you don't mind me asking? I can get not liking fishnets and make up but skirt? or high heels?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't mind. I like sporty & tomboyish type of girls, that's why I prefer girls in shorts and sneakers.

I can even tolerate skirts, but I really don't like high heels.
High heels don't look appealing to me, and besides that, they are unstable, and not healthy to wear (bad for spine, feet, and joints).

[DrPepper12]

That's not even revealing. But to answer the question I'm interested & she can wear whatever she damn well wants!

[alice55]

It's revealing in France where I live the style is extremely conservative here

[oswaldcobblepot]

My opinion doesn't matter. She is an independent woman. My telling her what to wear or not wear is probably going to end our relationship.

[alice55]

Oh it depend a lot of women are ok changing for their guys

[oswaldcobblepot]

My opinion is to let the guys look, she chooses to go home with me

[alice55]

true good opinion

[exitseven]

To me it would not be a big deal as long as she didn;t give me a hard time for wearing revealing clothes too,

[guesswhereivebeen]

That’s not all that revealing… I mean it’s a lot of work and good genetics to look like that… the closer to naked the better

[alice55]

It's revealing in my country and how I'm supposed to call this style? It's not modest and it's not revealing for American so what's it? It's a style that nobody wear in my country cause too revealing people here prefer more modest option so I was kinda lost on how to call it

[guesswhereivebeen]

Sexy as fuck… your country is missing out

[Pohjolan]

Well a catch here is that uglier women are less likely to wear revealing clothes so first choice by proxy.

[alice55]

True uglier women usually have no self worth so they hide under baggy and casual clothes

[Justme213]

Love it. If I got started on all of the reasons why, I would end up writing a novel. Just know this... Confidence is sexy. Displaying your gifts is sexy. Go for it. Plenty of great men will live you for it. Believe me.

[Ariesman81]

It's kind of like a guy walking around with his net worth stamped on his forehead. Sure, it might spark interest, but its superficial at best.

[Richardjd]

As long as the girls wear thongs or g strings and really tight or really short clothes then she's perfect for me

[Staximus]

If a woman goes out dressing like she wants attention from all the men when she already has a man, then that man has a problem.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Turn off. A woman can dress sexy but with a mixture of being modest.

Looking like a hooker showing off her beast or too much upper leg is a turn off.

[Oldschool1981]

I once dated a prostitute and dressing scantily was just part of the job.

[genericname85]

i mean there's a threshold where it's too much.

[Alex-Snow]

I would... if they look good in them I would hope she keeps wearing them!

[WonderingManII]

I can't vote because this isn't my biggest problem with dating females.

[ilikemangos]

its js clothes? who cares?

[alice55]

Some idiots does

[Anonymous]

There are exceptions but I generally want a woman who doesn't feel the need to show off for the world. She doesn't need do dress like a Mennonite or a Muslim but something that is tasteful and modest.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Does she have big spuds? If so, then YES !!!

[Anonymous]

If she looked like the woman in the link I would absolutely date her. And I wouldn't ever want her to change.

[fonduegirl]

If it suits her, she can wear whatever.

[Markella7]

If that's the case, I would be shunned for going without clothes on a beach where it's legal.

[Iryna_209]

definitely why not a man should its totally her rule.

[Jennz6]

Are you talking about what I wear? 💃

[Sunrising]

@jennz6 Have you any plans for tonight 🤔

[Jennz6]

@Sunrising
Unfortunately I have to work 💃💯

[Sunrising]

Oh well perhaps some other time 😔

[Jennz6]

@alice55
I want to meet you too Alice 💕

[alice55]

I don't know what you wear? I myself like quite shorts skirt and crop top cause it's cute

[Jennz6]

Same

[jahaims]

Wearing revealing clothing = attention whore.
Attention whore = insecure person who seeks validation in unhealthy ways

[alice55]

Can just like the clothes and styles not everything is about others

[soe11]

• My one is first option.

[BlondeGoneWild]

I totally would. I want us both to look hot af

[Bklynbadboy12]

I dont mind it at all

[StevenMcGarrett]

I love it when women dress sexy!

[Amur8711]

I don't mind, kinda makes me proud she chose 😌

[Grond21]

I chose a woman who has always dressed modestly