I just started talking to a guy on Facebook Dating. His dating profile was clean, and his character was very kind, something rare on a gay dating profile (usually gay men try to turn you on with sex, which doesn’t work for me). When we decided to open up and share each other’s social media profiles I learned that he does underwear and men’s lingerie modeling, something that completely shocked me. I even came across a nude photo (his junk was covered up, but there’s not much left to the imagination). I’m kind of worried about how this will affect things, because he seems like a very sweet guy. This is just a lot to process for me. However, I want to at least give him the benefit of the doubt. I don’t want him to give up anything he likes, but if we do decide to start a relationship, rules and boundaries will definitely need to be established. I’m trying to accept this, so I decided I want to meet him in person officially and invited him on a date to which he said yes. My next hurdle is to figure out how to talk to him about it without sounding accusatory. I want to respect his decision, but his perspective can definitely be a make it or break it scenario. What do you think?
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So I went on a first date with this guy, and I really like him. Having modeled in his underwear, he was surprisingly very shy. I learned that we have many similar interests, but we both also have different interests that we can bring to the table. I really want to go out with him again and asked him. He said yes, be we don't have a specific date set aside. I did specify sometime this week after work if he was free and he said yes.
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With his shyness, I learned that he does the modeling to help build his confidence. Seeing himself professionally photographed in a way that made him look sexy helps him with his self-image and being comfortable in his own skin. He was cool talking about it, which was great. I think that if it makes him happy and builds his self-image, and he's not soliciting himself for sex, then I don't see anything wrong with what he's doing.
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It's been a few months and so far, he's been the greatest relationship I've had. He's been real, kind, supportive, caring, and just all-around great. He's still surprisingly shy, but he's opened up to me a lot. I have not had one fight with him in the 4.5 months we've been hanging out. I officially asked him to be my boyfriend a few weeks ago and he said yes. The only issue we've run into is that his life is very busy but somehow, we're making it work. I'm really falling for him!
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