Polls: Dating

I really like this guy but he's like about 8 years older but he's single and soo cute!! and he's really nice and he wants to adopt kids and he is soo cute!! but do you think it would work out? because the age gap is pretty big and i wasn't even planning on having a boyfriend in hishschool but he's just so perfect!!

by the way im 15 and he is at least 22 and under 26 years old (im not totally sure but he is really perfect!)

I think dating apps have desensitised us, people are no longer treated with kindness/fairness.

When you're dating someone you can sure as hell expect them to be seeing 2-5 other girls/guys until your 'exclusive'.

I find that quiet silly, if you are interested in me and i am into you, why the need to see other people. It's like you're not even trying to form a connection. The term 'don't put all your eggs in one basket' is so annoying. No ones telling you to marry this person, they don't have to be the be all and end all of your life.

But I think it's just respectful (cant even use the term common courtesy) to date one person at a time, rather than seeing multiple people until you decide to be exclusive with one.

In a generation that has been nurtured to compete and not 'miss out', I think everyone is so set on not limiting their so called 'options'. We forget that we are dealing with people, and giving your full attention to ONE potential partner, does not limit your options from meeting 'the one'. If anything you're giving yourself a wholehearted opportunity to see if they are the right person for you. Just give people a chance to show who they really are.

In today's generation
- Girls: 'Dave didn't compliment my outfit, Nick and John did, goodbye Dave'.

- Guys: 'Louise laughs at my jokes, but Amy and Gemma look prettier laughing, C yaa Lou'

It's become ridiculous that a guy gets shocked when I say his the only person I'm seeing right now, as if I am Virgin Mary in disguise.

Maybe i'm just a boring old fart, born in the wrong generation who should shut up. But i'm sick of this emphasis on 'exclusivity'; declaring it has become as significant as proposing to a partner.


So what are your opinions?

I've been staying away from dating apps for a good while now but suddenly today I got the urge to try Tinder again. Maybe it's just boredom or a need for a confidence boost but I feel like right now I have no chances of meeting new people anywhere. Tinder would at least give me a 0.00001% chance of meeting someone I like when now that chance is next to nothing.

Is it a complete waste of time or do you think I should at least give it another try?

If you may🤔 also comment what do you make a bad girl bad and a good girl good🤐👀 XOXO

Guys, is it attractive to you if a girl has really super duper good art skills? Does it instantly make a girl slightly more feminine and likeable to you (assuming she has a good personality too), if she's gifted artistically, such as watercolor painting, oil painting, drawing, sketching, etc. Does that appeal to you, or do you feel like art skills aren't really too important, and you would rather have a girl that's more into a logical sort of career (like engineering)? Thoughts? Opinions?

What would you do? and girls would you let your boyfriend continue to train with her?