Thanks for the MHO
That Counts, too.
Her: I have a huge mohawk fetish Me: I have a huge mohawk, have a seat.H: it's soft, I thought it would be hardM: keep touching it and give it a minute3 hours later we were in bed. A little less than a year later we broke up.
Nice...(the fast hookup)
Oh shit, I just remembered, there was a second one. Okcupid date gone horribly wrong. Girl showed up at the marina where I live. Showed up kind of drunk got naked in front of everyone at the hot tub. That night made me famous there. There was a bunch of sex later on that night. I felt bad about ghosting her, but she told me about all the addictions she had and it would not have been healthy for her to be around me and my friends.
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Might also be a cultural thing. In Japan and many other parts of Asia and Europe that I went to, that idea of deliberately waiting to have sex didn't seem like such a common thing. If two people want to have sex, they have sex. I think the idea of deliberately waiting when two people want it is far more prevalent in the US than anywhere else I've been.
This is a good point, but Japan is considerably more liberal on sexual matters than other Asian countries, as is Europe vis-a-vis the US (albeit to a lesser extent).
Had somewhat similar experiences in Taiwan and Korea, though in those cases I might have just picked up some loose ones in those cases since I was into drinking and partying. :-D
Yeah, I can confirm in the case of Korea, that was because of how and where you met them. Normal Korean girls are pretty conservative.
We’d been talking for a long time prior though and I was very attracted to him so that’s why that’s one happened that way.
Shallow bitch 🙃
@Skali9119Liska: That's uncalled for. A lot of People do for that very reason- it doesn't make her shallow- it means she's human.
Humans are shallow
Classic female behavior for an Alpha male that knows game. Women will drop the panties on the first date just to bang an Alpha.
For the purposes of this discussion, yes.
Then yes I have and more than once. That's why I went to the party. And them too.
Lol. I'm not gonna lie. When I saw this question my initial thought was, "QueenofCups probably has"
@ZeussLightningBolt only once, dude. My Spidey sense told me he was The One.Plus I was horny and seriously crushing on him.
My Spidy sense has told me that 10 times and it's always wrong.
@QueenofCups- personally, I wouldn't hold that against a Woman, anyway. Both of the first Dates I had sex with became my girlfriend, and it was clear that the personal chemistry was off the Charts, so why should we have Held back?
@Logorithim I felt the same way at the time.
Completely Logical and reasonable to me.
Because you just met that person. No matter how alike you think you are in reality how well do you know them? Not very! Just my opinion.
@WillyD I knew him for a week before our first date.
Yeah, i still wouldn't have sex with someone i've only known for a week.
@WillyD good for you dudeRomeo and Juliet fucked after two days
Yes, they do
Well, that wasn't what I was interested in here, but kudos to those that do.
I did it once. Kinda starting to feel like it was a mistake.
Why only "starting to"?
It went great for awile, but then she developed feelings for me, and I didn't.
OK, too bad
Why is it bad to have someone like you and care for you? People work really hard to find that and you threw it away
@Logorithim. Yeah, i seem to be good at hurting people lately. They always develop feelings, and i never do.
@JoyKJ7 because it isn't fair to stay in a relationship with them if they never get loved.
So you just NEVER want a relationship?
@JoyJK7, no, thats not it all, a relationship is what i want most, but i can't have a serious relationship with someone i dont love.
Yeah but when do you know you love someone or when you could never love someone? I feel like a friends with benefit thing only sets you up to fail because you try to keep emotions out of it and might get clouded by the intentional suppression
I fell for a girl almost a year ago. She told me that she loved me, then she dumped me.She slept with at least 3 other guys in the month that followed. She got pregnant, she is giving birth to a baby boy literally right now.
I kinda feel broken inside, like I'll never fall in love again.
You need to find someone that you connect with intellectually rather than sexually. You’re trying to fill a void with someone that’s only going to make you feel emptier. It’s hard to get over someone but things happen for a reason. The fact that SHE left is a weight off your shoulder because there’s nothing worse than leaving someone and feeling like it’s the biggest mistake you’re ever gonna make. And the fact that life ran it’s course and gave her a kid and whatever means that it’s trying to get you to close that door. You might not see it, but life handed you a very great hand to play with. It hurts but it gave you reason to close that door and not keep thinking “what if” or wonder if they’re gonna come back thus having you wait for them
Lol, she and i never had full on sex, and honestly part of me wishes i was holding her hand right now.
Was this recent? I’m telling you, you’ll find someone that’ll love you hard. Be open to it and don’t let it slip away because you’re thinking about holding someone else’s hand. That’ll hurt you more than this entire situation
It was December last year. She was my first girlfriend.
It’s still a fresh wound. Time will heal you.
Yeah, but I'll probably break more people's hearts until I do heal. Even my friends with benefits started getting feelings for me.
So many of these problems wouldn't take place if people would sleep only with people they want a relationship with.
Yeah, except the only girl I wanted a relationship with, didn't want me.
What are the right conditions
@JoyKJ7 I'm not sure of that myself. I haven't even had a kiss on a date. I think i would know during the date as opposed to right now.
How do you "kinda" have sex? You either have sex or you didn't.
It wasn't a date but during the meeting we had sex. E assim meu amigo that's how you "kinda" have sex.