Have you ever had sex on the first date?

[Logorithim]

Yes

No (includes those who have never dated)

[Mandycandy42]

Happened a couple times with me, though didn't intend to. One thing led to another and next thing, we're having sex. Have had similar ONS situation too, but thats when I would be too horny for a while to hold back

[desidoll]

Yes, but I have been talking to him for a few months before we met.

[desidoll]

Thanks for the MHO

[aaronbw]

Yes. It definitely complicated things. I usually suggest waiting a week or two, or on a mutually agreed time.

[Sixgun77]

I put yes, though it was the night we first met. It wasn't technically a date.

[Logorithim]

That Counts, too.

[Sixgun77]

Her: I have a huge mohawk fetish
Me: I have a huge mohawk, have a seat.
H: it's soft, I thought it would be hard
M: keep touching it and give it a minute

3 hours later we were in bed. A little less than a year later we broke up.

[Logorithim]

Nice...(the fast hookup)

[Sixgun77]

Oh shit, I just remembered, there was a second one. Okcupid date gone horribly wrong. Girl showed up at the marina where I live. Showed up kind of drunk got naked in front of everyone at the hot tub. That night made me famous there. There was a bunch of sex later on that night. I felt bad about ghosting her, but she told me about all the addictions she had and it would not have been healthy for her to be around me and my friends.

[ak667]

More often than not, yes, including with my wife. I kind of made it happen though, like with my wife I jammed an emergency stop button on an elevator and kissed her. She wasn't necessarily the type to do that all the time.

I was pretty physically frisky starting from the first date. It's really about what the girl is comfortable with doing. But I liked to place my hands on a girl as soon as she'd let me (but initially gently of course, always reading her body language, always giving her room to refuse).

[ak667]

Might also be a cultural thing. In Japan and many other parts of Asia and Europe that I went to, that idea of deliberately waiting to have sex didn't seem like such a common thing. If two people want to have sex, they have sex. I think the idea of deliberately waiting when two people want it is far more prevalent in the US than anywhere else I've been.

[Logorithim]

This is a good point, but Japan is considerably more liberal on sexual matters than other Asian countries, as is Europe vis-a-vis the US (albeit to a lesser extent).

[ak667]

Had somewhat similar experiences in Taiwan and Korea, though in those cases I might have just picked up some loose ones in those cases since I was into drinking and partying. :-D

[Logorithim]

Yeah, I can confirm in the case of Korea, that was because of how and where you met them. Normal Korean girls are pretty conservative.

[DarkAngel97]

I've never slept with anyone on the first date, that being said I've only ever slept with one guy... the guy im with... But we did sleep together on the second date. Its not like I've never been asked for sex before or guys tried to make advances but it just never felt right until I met the guy im with today, that's why it didn't take tons of dates before we slept together. Doesn't matter when you sleep with someone, be clean, safe and hey have fun! lol

[katiesmuff]

There were a few times we would do something like a movie or some food before fucking but most were just plain old ONS. Couple of them turned into dating for awhile. None took and were short lived.

[SelfishGuy]

There should be something in between yes and no.
There were lot of touching, kissing and stuff. Now adult dates doesn't really count as first dates does it?

[Anonymous]

Not really, I did have sex with a girl I’ve known for a few years on a first date, so probably wouldn’t count.

I haven’t had on any other occasions.

[Juxtapose]

That's standard practice for me. I'll go slower if she wants but no longer than a few months unless she's really sick or the like.

[Anonymous]

Second once but never first (not sure the second is much better though).

[Opinion Owner]

We’d been talking for a long time prior though and I was very attracted to him so that’s why that’s one happened that way.

[chrisbigman]

No, and I don't believe I ever will. Which is fine with me, because I'd rather not.

[JackJPershing]

In my younger days, often without or before a first date.

[lehsoj]

Dont really want to ruin the first part of getting to know someone.

[buga1savage]

I’ve never been on a date before nor have I had sex at all

[sinastyle]

Yes i happens but he was too attractive

[Skali9119Liska]

Shallow bitch 🙃

[Logorithim]

@Skali9119Liska: That's uncalled for. A lot of People do for that very reason- it doesn't make her shallow- it means she's human.

[Skali9119Liska]

Humans are shallow

[Cask23]

Classic female behavior for an Alpha male that knows game. Women will drop the panties on the first date just to bang an Alpha.

[Gena-Midwest]

Yes, sure. It's not like a goal or predetermined thing, but it happens.

[ecfresh]

Nope. I don't like to have sex with strangers.

[WillyD]

No. And most likley any woman that tried there would be no second date.

[Johnnie1000]

Are pickups at a party a first date?

[Logorithim]

For the purposes of this discussion, yes.

[Johnnie1000]

Then yes I have and more than once. That's why I went to the party. And them too.

[winniethepoah]

I have on the second date. And I have fooled around on a first date but other than one night stands I've never had sex on a first date.

[Mikecorn22]

Being a highly sexual guy with a big mass of 11 and 1/2 inch dick sprinkler looking it says it's a priority when a woman dates me sex on the first

[monkeynutts]

Yeah I banged away on em like it was a steel pan drum.

[PM_ME_PUPPERS]

I almost did several times.