What is your relationship status and why?

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Shezadi · Accepted Answer

I am taken, I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend is my aunty's brother-in-law, as in her husband's brother. My boyfriend is also my mom's cousin and our neighbour in another country.
I fell in love with him before I even saw him, because I heard good things about him.
I asked my 10 year old cousin to tell his cousin about my feelings.
Now, we are in a relationship. And 3 years later, when I will turn 22 and when I will get my degree, I will ask him to tell his parents about me for the first time, so they can ask for my hand and speak with my parents, and then we will get married one year later.

The process will be long because talks will take place, I will have to persuade my parents, we will have to book flight tickets and make arrangements. Both families will have to spend a lot of money, the groom has to give gold jewellery to his bride in Asian wedding, and both families pay for functions.

It is a secret relationship only my 10 year old cousin knows about this. My parents don't know about my boyfriend because I am not allowed to have a boyfriend.

His parents also don't know because I am not ready for marriage.

He and his parents will try to make this look like an arranged marriage because my parents are against love marriage.

My mom thinks nice girls are not supposed to fall in love first. However, she knows I had a crush on him but doesn't know about the relationship. When I told her about having a crush on my boyfriend, he created a chaos in the house for a whole week and she had a mental breakdown because she thought I committed a sin by having a crush on a guy, and she was like I am a whore for liking a guy.

ChronicThinker · Accepted Answer

I'm engaged because I found a guy who realizes I was super damaged but 100 per cent loyal and highly sexual so... yeah.

Byakugan · Accepted Answer

Single
Because probably not good looking enough (since almost everything seems to revolve around looks), or plain simply no ones type
Single also because i decided not to date anybody of my country/state ever again
Also also, i have a bunch of shit that i need to get in order and also dealing a little bit with depression, so going in a relationship right now wouldn`t really be a smart decision

CornKing · Accepted Answer

Not committing to anyone until I'm out of high school at the very least but I'm having fun still if you catch my drift

witherwing · Answer

In a relationship, because I accidentally met the love of my life.

jenxxl · Answer

i like being single. everytime i try dating i end it within a week, i feel suffocated, the idea of dating before i accomplish something of my own scares me. just now my friends were laughing at me, 'you'll end up alone' i simply don't care. the last time they made me date a DJ so they'd get free passes to a club, i hated it. now i finally decided to do what i want, how i want, when i want. peace

dropkicknj13 · Answer

Single and I'm not entirely sure. I guess I'm just not fun enough so girls get bored and decide they wanna see other people. Then they wanna be stay friends until their next boyfriend acts like an ass and the run back talking about how they "were so stupid, you always treated me so good, I love you" lol

spunkygiraffe · Answer

Still crushing! All the other people in my friend group have had some sort of relationship or have somebody crushing on them. I'm the single one, I wonder why any of the other people in my grade still know I exist, I'm shy and not very social. XD

ichighost · Answer

Single. Ex ask for break after family issue. Turned into ignoring me and not giving me information about what's happening with the brother nor accepting me wanting to spend time at the hospital with them. That turned into not responding to text messages or returning phone calls and now with the new guy and couldn't break up with me first. I saw the proof on her Instagram.

Adonis_pl · Answer

For multiple reasons. Most of all being that I've concentrated on only platonic relationships for so long, but also because I have the fear of hurting the people I get close to. Another big reason is probably that I've dealt with a lot of self-hate issues as well throughout my life. I really just want to be the best that I can be before I fully consider getting into dating for real

winterfox10 · Answer

What do you call it when a woman has directly expressed her interest in having an emotional connection with you, but you aren't exclusive yet? That's what I am.

Anonymous · Answer

Single, because I am undesirable to all women in the world, nobody ever liked me, I never had even a kiss or held hands with somebody, and Im not picky, Im not a basement dude, I look normal, work out, go out, have friends, have a job, a car, etc. etc. a completely normal person except the above mentioned fact. Next month I will pay a prostitute to lose my virginity, and from that point on I am going to pay for sex on a regular basis (I can afford it) so things are going to be better, I only won't be able to ever have a kiss, because mouth kissing prostitutes is a bad idea

davidst123 · Answer

I have a speech impermanent and in high school a lot of people laugh about it, now I barely talk to people and just to few people. I have been hanging out with a girl soo maybe something is gonna happen with her. i'm really quiet soo haven't been in a relationship in a long time

beebella · Answer

Single. There are a lot of reasons why, but mainly bc I like being single.

Anonymous · Answer

Single. Caught him cheating Saturday. He lost the other girl too and now she and I are doing our best to support each other while his own family has turned against him.

passinby · Answer

I date on and off with a couple of girlfriend s. We all know about it and they have their lives and I have mine. It works the best for all of us. It is a bit like friends with benefits but we are all much closer then that; some are very good friends.

Ibeji · Answer

Complicated. Long-term, mutually exclusive, mutually romantic relationship with a guy who lives in a different continent with a different language whom I met 3 years ago.

LuvAsh · Answer

*sighs* in a relationship.. kinda miss being single if i gotta be real😂😂 That doesn't mean i dnt love who im with im just not use to it. Im used to crushing on someone lol

thisbutterfly81 · Answer

I’m going with searching! Even tho I’m Single, Broken-hearted, and complicated at the same damn time!

SumiB13 · Answer

As cheesy as this may soundI just believe I should be financially stable before being romantically stable after all we can't all live off of love🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

Jonny317 · Answer

Together twenty years s because I’m lucky and I found the right woman

NeglectedChild · Answer

Got a forced marriage to a lesbian... Can't get divorced cuz I'm Asian

TurtlesiLike · Answer

It’s complicated, she sometimes acts like my girlfriend but other times she acts single, she loves me one moment mad another, she’s on top of me other times she’s talking about another dude. she’s strange.

Smegskull · Answer

Single because after 5 years of putting the effort in and getting nowhere I gave up trying to impress women. I got a housemate instead and we just hang out and game every evening.
It's strange, considering their attempts to not be seen as sexual objects, that the only unsatisfied need without women in my life is sex.

Ellie-V · Answer

I’m single and that’s because I don’t want a relationship

DesertCreature · Answer

Married, first year or so had it's bumps but smooth sailing ever since.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Broken hearted and waiting for someone amazing to drop into my life probably be dead by then tho lol

BrianMerritt · Answer

Single, because: so rarely do I meet a girl who passes my unrealistically high standards, and when I do she's not available, and I also don't try as hard as I should.

ChloeStarfire · Answer

Taken because I found a guy that I have an awesome connection with and get along really well with

emily_charlee · Answer

My last relationship lasted almost 7 months. (He broke up with me 2 days before our 7 month.) I got back from a 3 week vacation, and hadn’t seen him in over a month, and he texted me saying how “old and annoying” I was was for wanting to call him. Like, what?

Nxtawm · Answer

Single cause I don't really want a boyfriend rn (I think it might be bothersome), not really looking for one either and hugely the fact that so far I've never had a crush on anyone

personwew · Answer

I'm pretty shy, so talking to new people, flirting, etc. has never really been my thing, so that's why I'm single. I also go to a school where there are only around 20% girls at most, so that doesn't help lol

TallJamaican1991 · Answer

I am single and will most likely remain this way for a while. I want to at least have an income of $60k or more before I consider dating again.

Shane_B · Answer

I'm most likely to be single and a virgin for life. Never dated. Not had my first kiss. Never been in a relationship either.

Rangers · Answer

A cross between it's complicated and broken hearted

Sixgun77 · Answer

Taken, because a year ago I met one of the most amazing women I've ever known.

ChiTown33 · Answer

If i could figure that out i wouldn't be single. lol I'm not an expert but i think it's because either i'm interested and they're not Or they're interested and i'm not.

AdmiralBailey · Answer

There's more single men than women so this can only stand to mean that you girls are in relationships with the same man and don't know.

Aalena · Answer

Single af. My ex and i broke up because it was a very on and off relationship and we didn't see a reason to keep it going if it really wasn't working

Wolfbaby · Answer

I've been in relationships for most of my life so I decided I should be alone for a while to rediscover myself. Turns out I love being single

Goldenskies6 · Answer

Single  Because I have high standards and picky and shy.  And have not found the right person.  (Yes, I socialize and do activities)

ecfresh · Answer

Currently I am single but no promises by the end of this week ;)

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

In a relationship, because I met this adorable and handsome man who is the best thing ever.

ShoeGirl24 · Answer

Had my heart broken. Not falling for that shit again!

BHooper · Answer

I'm single because I just haven't found the right person.

Juxtapose · Answer

Single because I haven't found anyone compatible with me. I'm better off on my own right now.

tealnorth6235 · Answer

It's complicated because I want to end my relationship, but I also love my boyfriend.

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

Why? I dony know. Im into a relationship because Im not scared to ask someone out. I did that 2 years ago and Im still with him. So. If you like someone. Just tell them.

RoadRunner650 · Answer

Single.. Turned down... Feel humiliated by someone 3 years younger than myself. So I pretty much fell out of love.. I don't know why did it affect me so much.

afrochick22 · Answer

Single and being careful. More into knowing the character of a person before engaging myself in anything serious :)

AbdKilani · Answer

It is like always, single... To be more precise forever alone. It appears that way, I won't mind that anymore.

DanOh2018 · Answer

crushing... is it bad that I took that as being in a suffocating relationship before having a crush LoL

rahul_24 · Answer

Was broken hearted. Single with a break from all this, might atm go for dating if there is serious from her otherwise atm not

Chaz269 · Answer

Women are either insane, entitled or some previously thought impossible combination of the two.

Krazzymike321 · Answer

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rebornnora · Answer

i'm single. my standards are low mid tier and i can't find a women that can reach that.

Chrissylee · Answer

I'm busy studying and tbh, I don't think there's any guy like me tho 😂

nasty4fun · Answer

I'm married because love is both an emotion and a decision.

Jayden213 · Answer

Looking for a smart, hot girl, with a bit of edge to her

Avrohom · Answer

I'm single. I'd like more, but am not sure I'm ready for anything more than casual.

Seppelson · Answer

I am taken because my girlfriend wanted me and flirtet with me and asked me out.  I guess I would have seen her more as a friend but through her flirting I get in love with her

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

Single and lost but still searching... i quit and then she brutaly backstabbed me...

Introvert94 · Answer

Single. I've met a few women, but none are the what I'm looking for. I'm kind of hard to match with.

JackJPershing · Answer

I'm a widower. The reason should be self-explanatory.

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