He fucked up. Not only did he fuck up; it also makes him view women poorly as well as people's parents. He didn't know she was 14... because she was very developed... they touched etc. Her parents took him to court basically. It was consensual! NO actual sex was involved tbh. Is he using me... no... he doesn't even think what he's doing is wrong. He's fucking me because I'm hot--but I'm also smart, sweet and comforting. I'm also an artsy gothic nerdy babe. What the fuck does he want from me--I don't know. You don't drive an hour in the pouring rain to see someone you aren't remotely interested. What the fuck does he want from me. Does he think I'm going to turn against him and claim he raped me once? Holy fuck, I hope not. Whenever he asks; "You have enough?" and I say "Yes." He stops.. he doesn't rape and keep going. When he touches me, it's never unwanted. Know the chick's age, know the guy's age... people... don't fuck up like my manwhore did... PLEASE. He's gotta bounce from girl to girl because once they find out his secret; they want nothing to do with him. Or--he finds a girl more fucked up than he is... I've been able to get rid of my emotional attachment for him, to let him live his sex addiction. Those others who DO want him, are either as fucked up as me OR are just using him. He's also been the one that girls cheat on their BFs with AND the one who thinks all his friends are his competition. I continue to stay "with him" because he's teaching me how to fuck and I'm teaching him how to see women as people. Maybe I'll write him a letter... but what should it be about. Not all criminals are evil.
Is he a sociopath?
A lot of people would. My brother is a convicted felon.. did a lot of time in prison as well (please don't ask what he did) and he never had trouble dating women and he has dated ALL KINDS of women. He never had much for himself either, but he is a very charming guy and has been dating his girlfriend for years. They live in an apartment together in a bit of a run down area, but she hasn't leave him. Would I personally date one? No. I honestly don't want to go through what it takes to date a felon. It is emotionally draining.. depending on your situation. My brother would also kill me if he knew I was dating a felon..😂🤣
*hasn't left him*
Depends what you mean with "criminal" and which scenario we're talking about here. I'm assuming you're talking about criminals being people who breaks the law. Since I lives in a country with laws I'm mostly agreeing in, I doubt I would date a criminal. If they used to be a criminal and stopped being it, maybe I would give them a chance. If they were still a criminal like drug dealer, robber, killer, scammer or not paying taxes - I wouldn't date them.
If I lived abroad, It would be more likely I would be fine with dating criminals. If the person was someone who rebelled against a dictatorship, I would be fine dating them. Since rebelling is illegal in dictatorships, therefor the rebelling people would technically be criminal by that country's law. I would also be fine dating a criminal if they stole food and healthcare services (without paying for the bills) because of poverty. Then it's the country not taking the poverty problem seriously.
It really depends on the circumstances and the charges. Someone who has demonstrated very poor judgment and morals is not someone I am likely to date - but it's also possible to make a one-time mistake and grow beyond it.
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It would depend on what they were convicted of, but character and common sense are two of the things I look for in a girlfriend, so probably not.
No, I alreadt have lots of problems in my life, I don't want any more trouble. Haha.
I believe that a person is first and foremost a person with his own thoughts and feelings. From the first time, you will not be able to find out whether this person committed a crime for no particular reason or for some reason, for which, if you were put in these conditions, you would have done the same or maybe even worse.
Well, if a person is normal with adequate thoughts and was forced to go for one or another act, then he has the right to happiness (if you count the relationship with me - happiness :)).
If it was just a manifestation of his aggressiveness and unwillingness to be in society, then yes, I would not have met such a person.
Yes, I have dated criminal minds in the past so I will say that I would. However, there is no future in such people. So, I won't anymore and will try and make better choices in the future. However, we usually attract people like those we attract and people are liars and manipulating! Be careful!
When my ex told me the truth about his past, having a record from stealing, robbery, and stealing a car. I assumed he wanted to change his ways because he made it seem like it. So I gave him a chance but then he talking like he missed his old days acting wild with his friends, so that became a huge no for me. So when he broke up with me before I did, I wasn't sad. Just hated myself for believing him and didn't see that he was taking advantage of me right away.
By definition, a criminal is someone who has committed a crime, and I've only came across one person in my life who claims she has never committed a crime (some girl on my Facebook, and she's obviously lying).
Everyone has committed a crime before, so of course I would date a criminal. It's the degree of being a criminal that matters.
It would entirely depend on the crime. If they laundered money due to some unfortunate circumstances (like in ozark lol) or killed someone in self-defence I could very likely live with that. I'd always way prefer if they weren't convicted of it though. I feel like committing crimes is one thing but getting convicted of them is just a sign that you didn't carry the crime out well enough and possibly just aren't that intelligent.
I feel that you have to be able to fully trust someone who you date or have a relationship with. You don’t want to be constantly be worrying about whether he/she is nicking your stuff, risking his/her safety as well as yours if they deal drugs or even worrying if they could snap and end your life. I would find it impossible to live like that.
Depends on what kind of criminal and if they learned from the mistake they made. The way I look at it is I could have been arrested for things I did in my earlier past if I had gotten caught. That doesn't make me a bad person or mean its things I would repeat now. So I'm not gonna judge anyone until I know their story and who they are now.
Maybe killing, if it was in self defense and a lot of time had passed, but that would be my limit and robbery afterwards, but it's a pretty hard limit for me, probably no. Drug dealing is kind of common in my country unfortunately, but as long as they didn't do it anymore.
OK I clicked no but I might depending on the crime, if it was something like they stole some little thing as a teenager, and they have not done anything else since then then yeah I could but everything else no, if it was drug dealing and other dangerous stuff even if they changed their ways i would feel invovled in dangerous situation. And those people have a lot of enemies. So no thanks
We all break the law, most of the time unintentionally. I believe in forgiveness and that nobody is better than anybody else.
However, if they were still knowingly committing the crime without wanting to better them selfs and refused to stop then no I wouldn't want anything to do with them.
It depends on which crime she did. I wouldn't entrust in somebody who isn't a ethical person, therefore I wouldn't date her if she is unethical, but laws usually punish some actions that aren't unethical in my opinion. For example, it was forbbiden to women to drive along Saudi Arabia before 2017, so there isn't any problem if her crime was because of a law I'm against to.
My answer is No, but I believe in giving second chance, because we all make mistakes but the person who deserve second chance is the one who always aware about his/her problems and searching for he possible right solutions and then apply it to fix the problem, so those kind of people deserve respect + second chance
''Criminal'' activity that does not directly harm or hurt individual people or their property is acceptable to me (bank looting, insurance fraud, smuggling, stealing an Army tank, and such). But I'd date her only if she's smart; smart enough to get away with things.
I doubt it, but it would depend on the crime, but I probably wouldn't if it was for rape or murder, unless it was justified and it's bot easy to justify either.
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I dont think murder can be justified either but i feel like if two people are fighting and someone if trying to kill the other one, someone was gonna die anyways. I wouldne blame someone for trying to fight back. But then again there are ways to fight someone without actually killing them.
It's hard to justify the major crimes. I think I forgot to add manslaughter, as you may accidently kill someone whilst defending yourself or another person, but if you kill one person to save the life of another who's in danger as a result of that person, then I think it can be kind of justified.
Sometimes people may panic and see no other option and I do think people who commit terrorist attacks and pedophiles deserve death.
Depends. I am friends with many who society or at least the legal system consider "criminals". I believe that people can change their ways and should be given a 2nd chance.
That being said, some types of people and some types of records I can't allow simply because it would make my life problematic living with or marrying them. Once you own firearms you can only assosiate so much with certain people.
That's always a sexy fantasy, but the reality is that most criminals are ugly as fuck and stupid. Take a look at a bunch of mug shots and the only attractive ones are celebrities. Even Lindsay Lohan & Paris Hilton are ugly as hell, so no I would not date a criminal.
Congratulations to all that said no.. Because here is the deal, Have you ever had any kind of traffic citation? If you answered yes, Guess what, you're a criminal and not date worthy..
I answered maybe, because if all she has is traffic violations i am good with it. Anything else though, not worth the trouble, especially if they are felonies.
In America they have a for profit prison system. 3x charged with possession of drugs and you go away from life. In other countries they are closing prisons due to effective social programs. So first I need to find out which country are you talking about.
I once dated a guy who had a conviction for burglary. He came to live with me after serving his sentence. But he wasn’t a nice boyfriend, he’d hit me & isolated me from my friends. Two months later I got him from work to find he’d left me & stole a load of my jewellery when he left. I was actually very relieved. Two months later he went on to murder a child so I’m glad he left me! I wouldn’t date a criminal again!
It would depend on the crime. I’m dating a guy who has a record for a DUI in which he blew.01 over the limit. He had only had 3 beers. I’m not going to throw him away over that. He served his time and doesn’t make that mistake anymore.
Sex crime, heinous crime, theft, Assault, etc. No chance in hell.
It depends entirely on what the crime is. Doing something in one country is perfectly legal but doing the same thing in another country would make that person a criminal. If I go to South Korea and watch porn and get caught I'm a criminal. Yet, I can watch porn all I want in the United States of America. Thus making me not a criminal in their eyes. So, maybe.
currently a criminal or was a criminal?
i've never dated anyone who has done time. Not sure if that would dealbreak for me or not. i've never dated a current criminal but a few of my exes did stupid stuff like sell weed in HS
As long as he's done his time and he's a changed man, then yes. I have hybristophiliia so i find myself getting turned on by armed robbery, grand larceny, drug dealing, etc. Wouldn't be with a criminal while he was committing those crimes/while he was in prison.
Lol 😂. Sorry but I don’t want the police to wake me up at 3 am to arrest my boyfriend, or taking the risk to be killed by a gang with whom he is competing, or to find myself suddenly in an anal inspection by the police to see if my boyfriend did not hide drugs in my butthole. So.. nah i better date à honest dude
Maybe. For two reasons: 1. Just because we don't all break laws doesn't mean we don't commit grave mistakes we should regret and repentance and forgiveness are important. 2. A person may technically be a criminal but morally his crime may be understandable, for example, I know it may sound like an animal law but if a man has killed his loved one's rapist I wouldn't be able to blame him.
Nope. I'm not a insecure women that seek out criminals and serial killers in prison. And write them letters or visit them or even marry them. Why some women do that I don't know. Maybe because they got hurt and seek out people that are twisted and weird minds
If he had reasons I could understand then yes definitely. You can't misjudge someone their whole life for a mistake done in the past when they show you how much of a good person they worked hard to become.
It depends on the crime, and why they did it. Like hey, your mom is at home sick and you can't afford any medicine, so you try and steal some for her, but get caught. Yeah, it's robbery, but you had good intent.
Of course if the crime would be stealing my heart 😉
Aaawwwwww then I'm proud to be that thief 😉😉😉😘😘😘😘😘
Why would anyone purposely get themselves tied up with someone who will either get you in trouble as well as them or they will either get dead or off to jail neither of which is something we would want for our partner.
I would j find that sometimes good people do bad things lol n I wouldn't if I knew from the get go but if they gradually change n I have feelings n treats me well n doesn't involve me I could with some rules
Maybe, depends on the crime. The criminal in the establishments eyes can be a hero in mine. If it aligns with my own morals ill date her, if not then not.
Some people are misunderstood. I would have to look into the charges first. Some are wrongly accused.
a reformed small time drug dealer, maybe. a rapist, serial killer, hell no! i'm all about giving second chances, but there are certain things you can never walk away from.
It depends.
If he was affiliated with the likes of the mafia or the criminal underworld , yes I would. But not if he was your "average Joe "from the streets.
That's not necessarily something one gets a choice regarding. People tend to not be proud of being criminals and as such not be so forthcoming about it.
Ultimately it depends on the individual. There are a lot of people walking the streets who (if given the chance) would commit crimes. The ones in prison are the ones who got caught. ;)
When you date a criminal, it does not leave you untouched because people will associate you with that person rather you want them too or not. Unless the person has changed their ways, then I won't date them.
I'm definitely 50-50 with it. It depends on the crime and how the person is today. I'm sure it doesn't matter too much but just whenever you want to willingly just go out there and say yeah
Depends on the crime. If it is nothing but a minor shoplifting in his childhod/teenage years then I won't mind but I won't date anyone whose past included violent behaviour or drugs.
that would depend, a past criminal who has gone straight and reformed yes if I liked him, but one that is still active, no, because sooner or later you could be drawn into something
Killing and drug dealing is a no-go to me. Stealing depends if she did it once and regrets it or does it all the time.
In general its a no from me tho
Doesn't matter if they make misguided comments (I'm sure it should be easy enough to gauge if a comment is misguided with enough context). Criminal wrongdoing (I'm not talking about trivial matters like marijuana possession for small quantities -- people sometimes use it for medical purposes) generally reflects poorly.
It depends what the person did and why. If it's a serial killer, I wouldn't even dare approach it lmao
I answered no, but there is an exception to the rule. If she has been convicted of rape, I would definitely date her in a heartbeat. Doesn't matter if she is fugly.
Depends:
Is she criminal because she torrents, uses the dark net and does other not harmful, unlawful things like using someone's wifi without asking for permission? No problem for me.
Drug abuse, big thefts, property damage, assaults? Hell no!
I'd be a great accomplice. Might even throw u under the bus.
Jail is an industry in the modern police state, people are driven to 'unlawful activities' by the very design of our society, so yes, seeing as how criminals are just ordinary people, I have no problem.
Ya, get rid of unemployment and wealth disparity and there is no such thing as crime
I'd maybe date them if the crime wasn't big and they obviously had changed their viewpoints and behavior. But I don't think I'd have a serious long-term relationship with a criminal.
I would. I'm a strong believer that almost anyone can change as long as they have the right help, and if they've changed, I wouldn't mind.
I've been with people that for the most part only sells or does drugs, then a few others that I won't even consider mentioning here.
Well that photo features Faye Dunaway who is probably close to 70 and I still volunteer to be her sex slave so it depends on the criminal.
It would depend on the crime why they did it and if they physically desire to do it again. 100% wouldn't date someone with drug issues though (half sisters dad used to smuggle them in and stuffed the family up pretty bad)
Well my girlfriend smokes weed which is illegal (at least it was when we still lived in Scotland). So I guess she is technically a criminal, as am I.
It would depend on the crime and the circumstances.
However, as a general rule of thumb, I avoid people who have committed major crimes.
It depends on the severity of the crime, how long ago it was, and how they’ve reformed since serving their time.
It depends- not it they are actively like that because then they are likely going to leave me for prison or possibly death
If he has a good reason for doing it, then maybe. Unless it's any sexual crime, crime against children, or any psychotic crime, then no.
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