Would You Date Someone If They Were A Criminal?

[Luméa]

Personally I wouldn't

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4 mo

The crime I'm talking about here is deliberately killing someone.

[NathanDavis]

what kind of criminal...

a smooth criminal?

a whole lot of things can be called a crime... and, even if you mistakenly do it once or didn't have the intention to commit a crime, you can still be labeled as a criminal

many things, there are "good deeds" that do break the law

me, for example... I've head to stop some really HORRIBLE people, using force, and that is technically a crime I've committed because it is against the law to beat someone and "take the law into my hands"

but I sure was not going to wait for police to come and help a woman (and a girl at a different occasion) from being abused, right?

so I did the right thing to do and I would do it again... even if, for the law, I committed a sort of crime

[Luméa]

The crime I'm talking about: deliberately killing an innocent person and not ashamed of it

[NathanDavis]

oh... those are psychos, lol

I'm not touching those, haha

[DJB72]

Honestly it depends who they killed and why. Someone hurts my son and I'll kill them and sleep well in the cells.

[Luméa]

Like if she kills a innocent deliberately

[DJB72]

Cold blooded killer, no. If I find out a "friend" had done something like that I'd turn them in with no hesitation.

I have two friends, one who was raped on a date and the other whose daughter was raped aged 3 and neither lady will tell me who did it to protect me from going to prison. Zero tolerance. Especially in a country that is so corrupt child rapists walk on the equivalent of $100 bail and after ten years haven't stood trial...

[wiltingrosepetal]

I'm definitely on the nerd bandwagon. I don't get the attraction to criminals. Sweet, sincere people make the best partners

[Sirenboobzilla]

Seeing as you responded with murder on a few responses (you should add that as an update), I'm gonna go with no

[Summeroflove]

Probably not lol. It may depend on what makes them a criminal. But probably not

[Luméa]

If they killed someone deliberately and they are not ashamed of it

[Summeroflove]

Then fuck no. If it was self defense or defense of another. That could be a different story

[KostasKouvalis]

If it was some random person and she felt no remorse, no. That would make her a psychopath and I wouldn't feel safe that she wouldn't kill me or someone in my family.

However, if she killed someone who was abusing her, or if she just made a mistake and killed someone in the heat of the moment or in self-defense, and felt guilt/regret, and still had good in her heart, I would, because that kind of person needs love the most, and that kind of girl would be more likely to be loyal and be able to keep a secret, which is very important to me. Though I would prefer if police didn't suspect her or if I knew she wouldn't get in trouble, because I'm not sure I could handle a life on the run. So it's more the repercussions I would be bothered by, and not the fact that she actually killed someone.

[ChicoFromThe305]

If they were yea, as someone that wasn't eye to eye with the law in my past I know people fall into it, i wasn't a bad person I was just misunderstood and I think others should have a second chance as well, not only that, Sometimes the law has stupid reasoning.

[Luméa]

What if she killed someone on purpose?

[Luméa]

Sure being misunderstood sucks

A person who kills someone for the intentional reason I mentioned in question

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well if it's cold blooded murder normally they wouldn't have remorse which means they wouldn't look for a second chance, you are speaking of the top part of the criminal spectrum, the top ones aren't justified and shouldn't be, but I'm speaking of misunderstandings or struggles which I believe many people don't take into consideration because they are in a better position than others and don't consider their hard decisions justifiable, for example if a woman was being raped and she put a knife in the rapist neck and killed him, I see that as an unfortunate event and will date her even if she killed someone because it was out of defending herself, for years I've been on the wrong side of the tracks and I've realized there's good criminals and bad ones, although it's very easy to throw them all in the same pile because they both do or did crime

[Luméa]

Ofc, in this example of a woman, the woman is right and if I were a man, I would still date such a woman

Yep what I mean is the criminals who killed innocents and they are not ashamed of it

[ChicoFromThe305]

No I wouldn't date evil people Luma, I wouldn't expect you too either, that would be a very unstable thing to do for anyone, these people that have no heart deserve to rot in dirt to be honest.

[Luméa]

Unfortunately, there are people who are in love with such people and try to fix them

Yes, I wouldn't date this type of person either you guessed right, these people are evil.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It's unfortunate indeed, may God bless and protect their souls from evil.

Your decision is comforting Luma, it's best that way, stay safe 💯

[Luméa]

Thank you 😊

[Gent207-2]

Depends on the backstop and how are they bettering their lives now. I like to believe in second chances for all except pedophiles

[exitseven]

it depends on whet they did. If she was a drug dealer or an embezzler I would say no. If she was a tax cheat or ran over a liberal i would be okay.

[BourbonAndBacon]

Nope. I want to travel and I want to do it with someone who will be allowed into other countries

[Anonymous]

I would not go near anyone convicted of murder, or any form of sex crime, or assaults. Anything else, it depends on how long ago was it.. For example, i did very stupid things in 2003, 21 years ago. i am definitely not the same person.. And no i will not elaborate on what i did, but suffice it to say it was not a crime that involved violence, drugs, or sex. and it was not a felony. i paid fines, and restitution and i had those records expunged.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No… I wouldn’t.

[Jmmmfi4]

DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION

[Dinklex3]

Depends on the crime

[sawno]

Depends on the crime, but probably not.

[syncheart]

I guess it depends on what they did.

[Al_Musafir]

Would depend on the crime they committed.

[Luméa]

The crime I'm talking about is killing someone.

[Al_Musafir]

I'd not prefer it.

[RevengeofLadyJ]

Depending on the criminal

[4ngelic]

noooo

[Alex-Snow]

Not a chance

[LavLavLuv]

Nope

[BrookeS]

Sure, why not

[Jennz6]

Not me

[dudeinohio]

No way