I once dated a guy who had a conviction for burglary. He came to live with me after serving his sentence. But he wasn’t a nice boyfriend, he’d hit me & isolated me from my friends. Two months later I got him from work to find he’d left me & stole a load of my jewellery when he left. I was actually very relieved. Two months later he went on to murder a child so I’m glad he left me! I wouldn’t date a criminal again!
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It would depend on the crime. I’m dating a guy who has a record for a DUI in which he blew.01 over the limit. He had only had 3 beers. I’m not going to throw him away over that. He served his time and doesn’t make that mistake anymore.
Sex crime, heinous crime, theft, Assault, etc. No chance in hell.
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It depends entirely on what the crime is. Doing something in one country is perfectly legal but doing the same thing in another country would make that person a criminal. If I go to South Korea and watch porn and get caught I'm a criminal. Yet, I can watch porn all I want in the United States of America. Thus making me not a criminal in their eyes. So, maybe.
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currently a criminal or was a criminal?
i've never dated anyone who has done time. Not sure if that would dealbreak for me or not. i've never dated a current criminal but a few of my exes did stupid stuff like sell weed in HS
As long as he's done his time and he's a changed man, then yes. I have hybristophiliia so i find myself getting turned on by armed robbery, grand larceny, drug dealing, etc. Wouldn't be with a criminal while he was committing those crimes/while he was in prison.
Lol 😂. Sorry but I don’t want the police to wake me up at 3 am to arrest my boyfriend, or taking the risk to be killed by a gang with whom he is competing, or to find myself suddenly in an anal inspection by the police to see if my boyfriend did not hide drugs in my butthole. So.. nah i better date à honest dude
Maybe. For two reasons: 1. Just because we don't all break laws doesn't mean we don't commit grave mistakes we should regret and repentance and forgiveness are important. 2. A person may technically be a criminal but morally his crime may be understandable, for example, I know it may sound like an animal law but if a man has killed his loved one's rapist I wouldn't be able to blame him.
Nope. I'm not a insecure women that seek out criminals and serial killers in prison. And write them letters or visit them or even marry them. Why some women do that I don't know. Maybe because they got hurt and seek out people that are twisted and weird minds
If he had reasons I could understand then yes definitely. You can't misjudge someone their whole life for a mistake done in the past when they show you how much of a good person they worked hard to become.
It depends on the crime, and why they did it. Like hey, your mom is at home sick and you can't afford any medicine, so you try and steal some for her, but get caught. Yeah, it's robbery, but you had good intent.
Why would anyone purposely get themselves tied up with someone who will either get you in trouble as well as them or they will either get dead or off to jail neither of which is something we would want for our partner.
I would j find that sometimes good people do bad things lol n I wouldn't if I knew from the get go but if they gradually change n I have feelings n treats me well n doesn't involve me I could with some rules
Maybe, depends on the crime. The criminal in the establishments eyes can be a hero in mine. If it aligns with my own morals ill date her, if not then not.
a reformed small time drug dealer, maybe. a rapist, serial killer, hell no! i'm all about giving second chances, but there are certain things you can never walk away from.
That's not necessarily something one gets a choice regarding. People tend to not be proud of being criminals and as such not be so forthcoming about it.
Ultimately it depends on the individual. There are a lot of people walking the streets who (if given the chance) would commit crimes. The ones in prison are the ones who got caught. ;)
When you date a criminal, it does not leave you untouched because people will associate you with that person rather you want them too or not. Unless the person has changed their ways, then I won't date them.
I'm definitely 50-50 with it. It depends on the crime and how the person is today. I'm sure it doesn't matter too much but just whenever you want to willingly just go out there and say yeah
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I once dated a guy who had a conviction for burglary. He came to live with me after serving his sentence. But he wasn’t a nice boyfriend, he’d hit me & isolated me from my friends. Two months later I got him from work to find he’d left me & stole a load of my jewellery when he left. I was actually very relieved. Two months later he went on to murder a child so I’m glad he left me! I wouldn’t date a criminal again!
It would depend on the crime. I’m dating a guy who has a record for a DUI in which he blew.01 over the limit. He had only had 3 beers. I’m not going to throw him away over that. He served his time and doesn’t make that mistake anymore.
Sex crime, heinous crime, theft, Assault, etc. No chance in hell.
It depends entirely on what the crime is. Doing something in one country is perfectly legal but doing the same thing in another country would make that person a criminal. If I go to South Korea and watch porn and get caught I'm a criminal. Yet, I can watch porn all I want in the United States of America. Thus making me not a criminal in their eyes. So, maybe.
currently a criminal or was a criminal?
i've never dated anyone who has done time. Not sure if that would dealbreak for me or not. i've never dated a current criminal but a few of my exes did stupid stuff like sell weed in HS
Currently is what i was asking but it doesn't matter.
As long as he's done his time and he's a changed man, then yes. I have hybristophiliia so i find myself getting turned on by armed robbery, grand larceny, drug dealing, etc. Wouldn't be with a criminal while he was committing those crimes/while he was in prison.
What about murder?
Lol 😂. Sorry but I don’t want the police to wake me up at 3 am to arrest my boyfriend, or taking the risk to be killed by a gang with whom he is competing, or to find myself suddenly in an anal inspection by the police to see if my boyfriend did not hide drugs in my butthole. So.. nah i better date à honest dude
Maybe. For two reasons: 1. Just because we don't all break laws doesn't mean we don't commit grave mistakes we should regret and repentance and forgiveness are important. 2. A person may technically be a criminal but morally his crime may be understandable, for example, I know it may sound like an animal law but if a man has killed his loved one's rapist I wouldn't be able to blame him.
Nope. I'm not a insecure women that seek out criminals and serial killers in prison. And write them letters or visit them or even marry them. Why some women do that I don't know. Maybe because they got hurt and seek out people that are twisted and weird minds
If he had reasons I could understand then yes definitely. You can't misjudge someone their whole life for a mistake done in the past when they show you how much of a good person they worked hard to become.
It depends on the crime, and why they did it. Like hey, your mom is at home sick and you can't afford any medicine, so you try and steal some for her, but get caught. Yeah, it's robbery, but you had good intent.
Of course if the crime would be stealing my heart 😉
Ahahaha😂😂
Aaawwwwww then I'm proud to be that thief 😉😉😉😘😘😘😘😘
Why would anyone purposely get themselves tied up with someone who will either get you in trouble as well as them or they will either get dead or off to jail neither of which is something we would want for our partner.
I would j find that sometimes good people do bad things lol n I wouldn't if I knew from the get go but if they gradually change n I have feelings n treats me well n doesn't involve me I could with some rules
Maybe, depends on the crime. The criminal in the establishments eyes can be a hero in mine. If it aligns with my own morals ill date her, if not then not.
a reformed small time drug dealer, maybe. a rapist, serial killer, hell no! i'm all about giving second chances, but there are certain things you can never walk away from.
It depends.
If he was affiliated with the likes of the mafia or the criminal underworld , yes I would. But not if he was your "average Joe "from the streets.
That's not necessarily something one gets a choice regarding. People tend to not be proud of being criminals and as such not be so forthcoming about it.
Ultimately it depends on the individual. There are a lot of people walking the streets who (if given the chance) would commit crimes. The ones in prison are the ones who got caught. ;)
When you date a criminal, it does not leave you untouched because people will associate you with that person rather you want them too or not. Unless the person has changed their ways, then I won't date them.
I'm definitely 50-50 with it. It depends on the crime and how the person is today. I'm sure it doesn't matter too much but just whenever you want to willingly just go out there and say yeah