Polls: Dating

I can't tell if this guy likes me but he never texts me first. We went on a couple of dates, the first one set up and the second one I asked. He told me he is shy but I never see that when I'm with him (he's super outgoing with me). He texts me back when I text him but he has not initiated any texts.
I don't know whether to text him or not because I don't want to come off as clingy vs confident.

And I hope you men didn't think I'd leave you out of the "shallow" party lol This is part 2.

Again, we all want a partner that is attractive AND has a good personality. And though women are reluctant to admit that they want an attractive partner, men aren't as reluctant. However, they still get labeled shallow. Many people who think that you are a monster for not asking out large women, or hairy women etc because you don't want them.
I feel that this is mostly a male issue because guess what, men are the ones who mainly approach/ask out. So they get the heat for not asking out the "Ugly Betty" or "Plain Jane."

So, yes I understand why men are, in my opinion, unfairly labeled shallow monsters for only approaching women they find physically attractive.

That said, do you think it's shallow to approach/ask a complete stranger out just because you find him or her attractive? If yes, why, if no why not? And do you think it's wrong?

Personally, again, I do think it's shallow, that's the dictionary definition of it, HOWEVER not wrong. Despite what all these "holier than thou" types would like to have you believe, you need physical attraction AND attraction to the personality and you can't really "overcompensate" in one area to make up for the other. It's human nature, and I don't know. I just can't believe how much shit people give others. Of course still be respectful to others, because just like you want an attractive person that you're approaching, they want someone attractive too.

We all know the time. His mom's opinion is law. His mom tends to come before you. He's always rushing to her when she calls. Basically, he's overly attached to his mom.


Could you see yourself in a long term relationship with one?

Which Is more attractive? Do you have a favorite? Why do you prefer one over the other?

TBH I think it is degrading when the woman wants to cuddle that the man doesn't. I am turned on by the idea of cuddling but if he doesn't like then I would act frigid towards him

Let's say there are 2 girls. One who is hot but mean- and the other is nice but "cute" / "pretty" type of person- aka- not hot. Which one would you like more and WHY?

From the answers of lots of guys on GAG i kinda assume lots seem to prefer tom boys.. but what i don't get is in real life from what is clear to me most of the girly sort of women are taken and the more toyboyish guys are single.. i'm pretty much in the middle but only giving the tomboy or girly girl option to see what most guys prefer out of the two.. so no in between... this is also to do with personality terms and looks so both. (you're not voting for which girl in the picture you find more attractive only which type of girl you prefer.