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Would you rather date a popular or an unpopular person? Explain if possible?
This would really be very conditional, in the case I wouldn't date a popular person would most likely be because her dedication to her popularity meaning she doesn't have quite a good personality, in the case I would date one would be because, maybe she's popular because she's socially fun to hang out with.
In the case I wouldn't date an unpopular girl would maybe be due to why she's unpopular in the first place, can't talk to them or he/she says things that are socially unacceptable. Lastly in the case I would date an unpopular girl is because she could be just shy with a good personality and you found out she actually shares the same hobbies or plays the same games as you.
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Us unpopular kids can love pretty darn well. Since we don't get love that often, we are careful who we give it to and how we do it. I say we are pretty good kissers aswell. Cause we care. That's just my opinion though
Frankly I don't care if they are popular or not, but if they aren't quite as popular than girls wouldn't be all over him in the way they would a popular guy, and typically a guy who isn't too popular has a group of friends who they are close to. And it'd be easier for you to insert yourself into a small friend group then to try to fit in with the populars. I'm not saying any of this is true for everyone, but based on my experience this is what I think.
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It actually depends on what he acts like as well but most popular guy I find are very obnoxious and arrogant. I like someone who's independent yet kind and loyal.
If a guy is popular, he's more focus on pleasing others rather than doing what he likes. Also the care more about girl's looks than personality and that makes them more willing to cheat. The most interesting guy are normally not to popular.
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I would rather date an unpopular person because a popular person would care too much about what other people thought of them and how to make them seem more "important" and keep up their popularity. Plus I like my privacy so I don't want people talking about me... just because I'm with someone.
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Unpopular because A) I'd feel like I'm worth less than him and be scared he'll find someone better, and B) he knows more people, which means he knows more girls, and there's a bigger chance he'll be attracted to one of them romantically
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No preference really, but I chose unpopular because popular people tend to be snootish. They have this outer person that "please the public", but aren't true to themselves. I need someone I can act goofy with and still go out on a romantic dinner with.
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Unpopular guys are less of a hassle. You don't really have to compete for his time and attention. Where-as popular guys have lots of friends which means they're busy quite a lot. Even if they do give you most of their time and attention, you have to put up with their friends. Which I'm not a huge fan of at all.
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Doesn't matter to me, honestly. I've hung out with both crowds. Mostly drawn to unpopular though because they tend to be more relaxed and comfortable without putting so much thought into what others think.
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I would rather date someone who treats me well and respects me and who I have fun with. He doesn't need to be popular or unpopular. As long as we're solid that's all that matters.
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I don't really care about popularity to be honest, I mean what does it matter? Popular people can be real pricks or great and unpopular people can be really great or pricks.
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I personally don't give a shit. If I like you, then I like you. Point blank period.
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popular people always tend to circle drama.. and if there's drama with them there will be drama with your relationship.
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unpopular.
popular pple twnd to hv a not nice personality and way of being -
Unpopular, but it depends of what you mean by it: https://vocaroo.com/i/s0ZXtbYGiMZZ
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popularity means nothing once you graduate high school.
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Unpopular; because popular people generally aren't popular for good reasons
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Unpopular, I've never trusted the popular crowd and for good reason, they're popular for all the wrong reasons
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I don't care
depends with h
what he is popular for
if he is popular fuckboi then I would be careful - 798 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Popular because they're always the ones who have lots of people but nobody really close trust me I'm speaking from experience a lot of people make me popular but none of them are close to me.
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I don't people by who they are but what they do personality wise.
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popular cause they tend to have a personality that's not all gloom and doom and the world
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Unpopular, because otherwise you are just gonna be known as the GF/BF of ''...'', instead of who you really were in general.
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Assuming they are both attractive and fun to hang out with, I would rather date an unpopular girl.
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popular cuz usually they are popular cuz they r hot
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There's no "I don't care" option. Honestly it comes down only to looks, personality, and whether they like me or not.
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