Would you honestly date someone who is obese?

[IHaveLists]

Yes I don't care

Yes if they promise to lose weight

Never

[xxALESIAxx]

I won't say never but for me physical attraction is the first thing that catches my attention and then personality is what makes me pursue that person and want to stay. I am not saying that looks are everything because they certainly are not but thats honestly your foot in the door. Now there are many people who are attracted to obese people but I personally have never been attracted to one but that could change who knows. If my current boyfriend were to become obese I'd still love him unconditionally however I think our fate would be very different had he been obese before I met him. Not saying I wouldn't have given him a shot but if I weren't initially attracted to my boyfriend before I even knew him i would not have stopped and talked to him. I would've left the party that we were at and there would be no us, and I would miss out on an amazing man. It's said and extremely unfortunate but it is a harsh reality.

[kurokohai]

It depends on how obese the person really is. I wouldn't if they don't loose weight because it's not healthy for them and they could get sick (heart diseases, ect)

[witherwing]

I'm a bit overweight myself, but if they were really obese, I don't think I'd think of them as attractive. 🙄

[Anonymous]

TBH, it's a turnoff to me. A little chubiness? Fine. So obese you could be on my 600 lb life? Nah

[ImKervin]

If she's chubby, sure. If she's big? I don't know if I could. But if I knew her more then maybe her personality would win me over. I would most likely, as well, encourage her to work out with me. Because since we're in a relationship. Our health is important to one another.

[Caaarl]

An obese person is very unlikely to lose weight even if they promised you. It's better to avoid all together.

[OlderAndWiser]

A few pounds overweight. . . okay. Fifty pounds overweight? No way!

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Depends, like everyone has different views on what is thick, chubby and obese.

I prefer thick and curvy girls but if I met a chubby girl and she carries herself and great personality then I'll make a compromise.

But If she is over 250 then I'm not sure if I can

[TripleAce]

I could but she would just break up with me after some time lol our dates would be hiking up a mountain most of the times hahah
I don't think she would want a guy like that lol

[matheus_mb]

I made a lot of efforts to lose weight and now that I'm fit I make a lot of efforts to keep myself the way I am. Ideally I'd like to date someone who cares as much about it as me. So, obese is quite off the table.

[AaronTupaz]

Nope, I'd never be able to get it up and sex is too important. Plus I think every girl deserve a partner who finds her attractive.

[TheUglyMonk]

I prefer living a healthy lifestyle and promote healthy lifestyles to my friends but whenever I say something like that to an overweight person they always, always and always assume I´m targeting their weight for some reason.

[Anonymous]

Did you sign up for this site to make troll/ make up hateful questions?
You do realize there is obese people who are suffering with food addiction? No you just don't care the hurt you do to others do you?

[goddess87]

I have before. Not so big I had to be their care taker or anything, but certainly overweight.

[OttoIsTheMotto]

I would like them to lose weight only if it was to a point of becoming a threat to their health.

[Nazzz]

If the man i love was obese i wouldn't care at all. Of course if he lost weight it would be better but i would be with him in every way. But he is not obese.

[blargbarian]

personally i wouldn't but i know what a fee chubby chasers.

[TacosRAwesome]

I don't have any problems with dating someone who is a bit more cuddly than fit, but I don't like obese.

[ravedave]

I'm not going to date someone I don't find physically attractive. Relationships don't work if you're not at all attracted to your partner.

[ColoradoChick84]

Nope, I love being active and have hobbies like horseback riding, motorcycle riding, and hiking.

[MichaelG]

Hearts and minds.

If she's an exact copy of me in a female body but overweight... hell yeas!

[Pizzalover101]

I could date girls with up to 25 pounds to loose more then that is to much

[AleDeEurope]

Never. I wouldn't even date chubby.

[Coconutpie]

Damn must be overweight girls downvoting your comment. Can't even have a opinion these days. Since you have to accept that overweight/chubby girls are hot. Well that is called a preference people 😕.

[AleDeEurope]

@Coconutpie Oh well, I'm used to it. It's not ok for us to have a preference that excludes them, but they can have a preference that excludes certain type of men.
Hypocrites.

[Coconutpie]

Are you okay? You sound sad, do you need a hug?

True, but it is because of their insecurity. It is ok for chubby/overweight girl to like guys with sixpack. But when guys say they like girls who look like a model they are not realistic enough. People need to grow up smh and not be butthurt these days. Not everyone will like them. I am girl and I don't even like it. They are unhealthy and the risks of some diseases are even bigger now because everyone is promoting this bullshit.

[AleDeEurope]

@Coconutpie I'm not sad, but I'll take that hug xD

Agreed. It's ridiculous. Being fat shouldn't be something we're ok with, even less when you reach the obese level.
Everyone has their preferences. I get it that you're not gonna be happy when someone doesn't like how you look, but you just gotta deal with it. If you're ok with having your own preferences, you gotta be ok with others having preferences.

[Coconutpie]

Yaaas you go ale. That is my girl 👏🏼👏🏼

[AleDeEurope]

@Coconutpie Ayyyy! 8)

[Coconutpie]

🌞❤️

[Anonymous]

What an excellent lying detector.

[BrittBratt2416]

well he's not obese he's just chunky <3

[Anonymous]

Questions like this should be asked this way: To what extent would you date an overweight person?