Polls: Dating

I'm a shorter than average guy at around 5'8 but it does get pointed out to me occasionally that I have rather small hands and feet. I did look up some measurements and I think I'm in the bottom 10th percentile for guys, my hands are far closer to the average womens hands than a mans!

I have size 8-9 shoe as well. So not too small, but small enough that again, I'm going to be the same size or smaller than some women.

I know height is a big deal for the ladies but could things like the size of his hands and feet matter as well? Its to do with the whole protection thing and masculinity of males being bigger at the end of the day. Would a guy having small hands and feet be a turnoff to any of you ladies?

1. White
2. Latino
3. Asian
4. Indian

Which race do you find sexiest

I'm totally confused about this girls interest in me and dont feel like summing up our past on what happened. Here's our convo last night and i'd like opinions on whether she's interested or not based off THIS convo

Just want to point out she's an alcoholic and i'm helping her out with it. She knows i am interested but wants to "stay single for now" untill she feels she's stable for a relationship. No, this isint a BS excuse. Her daily life is TOTALLY consumed by her addiciton AND caused her to gain weight,

Anyway:

Me: You know, you're a totally different person when sober and thats the one I wanna date :p
Her: Why?
Her: *Sends a selfie with some cleavage* my boobies are too big too (shes talking about how the alcohol caused her to gain weight)
Me: Why do I wanna date the sober you? Haha thats an obvious question. And don't tease me :p
Her: It's cause im too fat (shes implying when she gets sober, she'll lose the weight)
Me: You're not fat! You're fine. You know I like you for you! You dont realize this but when you're sober you're a completely different person, you're more calm and caring
Her: I can be mean when sober too
Me: Haha well so can everybody, you should come over to my house one day :)
Her: Maybe (she gives this answer a lot when i try to get her to hang out. she tells me she's extremely shy and thats why she barely hangs, and cause she doesn't want to develop feelings when she's just trying to get better)
Me: Stop being so shy and lets hang already
(2 hours later)
Me: Are you ok? what are you up to?

(the convo changes now)

ANYWAY... Opinions girls and guys?

Cliff notes:
-Met a girl online 2 months ago. We hit it off amazing
-Later on into our "Dating", her severe depression starts acting up, causing her to react extremely strange to little stuff
-She told me she wants to stay single for awhile untill she feels she's stable. She is currently taking meds and getting professional help
-We hung out again recently, and i made a joke about her kissing me. Later that day she tells me she feels uncomfortable and awkward with hanging with me because of my feelings, because "she wants to stay single and not develop feelings right now"

HOWEVER
-Whenever i talk to her about something, that suggests me and her dating, she doesn't reject me or say anything. For example:
"Does it bother you I dont have tattoos? i know you like guys with tattoos"
"Well dont worry about them, you got me now"
"I just want you to know ill wait on you till you're ready, unless you tell me to move on"

Again, she either changes topic, or doesn't reply when i say the above. So basically she doesn't reject me, but doesn't flirt back either.

I would like opinions on what to do. Thank you

Pretty self-explanatory, so give me your opinion.

(I'm just typing this last part because it won't allow me to post the question until I make it longer.)

I was hanging with this girl (who's been off and on with showing interest) and we walked into a Wawa. some old creepy dude started hitting on her, and she said to him "Thats my boyfriend" (referring to me)

I also agreed with her and said "yeah man thats my girlfriend, sorry"

anyway is this generally a good sign? her saying first, that im her boyfriend? i never asked her to be exclusive by the way (at least not yet)

Ok here's a quick overview of my relationship life.
I had a gf, the first and only one I've ever had, she used me and didn't appretiate me, she also verbally abused me, and i let it happen. it eventually ended. I lost a lot of confidence. but I've recently gained it back and truly realized that i deserve equality in a relationship.
i saw this girl at comic con, she seemed nice and she was really pretty. I invited her and everyone else that cosplayed from the same anime. we're all hangin out tomorrow. if i end up liking her personality as well, should i take a chance and ask her out?
check out my other posted questions to see what im like (except for the doubtful side because that has been vanquished)

I've been working out for a few years now (it helps with mood, confidence etc.) , i have a pretty ripped body (think lean male model or fitness trainer), the problem is that this sort of physique is not very noticeable when clothes are on.

Lately i've been thinking of hitting the gym and getting bigger (but also keeping defined).

I ask this because i can alternatively use that time to better my programming skills and focus on my career more.

Please be 100% honest, it would help me a great deal in this choice and i would not waste time in the gym and be productive instead.

So , would you date or have sex with a guy with an ugly face but a great body?

I'm not a player...i just want a relationship..

I won't ask that about money, because i already know the answer lol. I know girls with hot bodies but ugly faces have no trouble getting men, but it does not seem to work for men...

Also please explain why your answer is an yes or no, describe the process if you will..

Thanks in advance.

Look i'm a dude but these two are sexy, and when I say sexy..i mean juicy, minty fresh like mint Ore's first thing in the morning "mmmm".. like a cool glass of lemonade on a hot's summer's day in the Congo. You feeling my feeels? like the Japanese bullet train going straight up my feels meter and hitting a clean 400MPH in less then 1 universal second.
Simply zesty hot.

Who would you rather, and why.

Please elaborate.

(don't be shy)