Do players end up alone and lonely at the end?

[Anonymous]

I don't know whats wrong me I can't stay loyal even when there was love. I decide to play around until late 30 and then settle down and start a family but heard it a lot that players will end up alone. Is it true?

Yes

No

[Bandit74]

You're less likely to end up alone than a shy virgin. You have no problem getting a girls to fall for you and want you. Thats the hardest part for most people. Despite what the poll says, girls fall for guys like you all the time. The problem is on your side of the fence so you've got a good ammount of control over the situation.

You need to find out what it is that makes you stray and then work on fixing it. Or you could try to find a girl who is ok with an "open relationship". So it's within your control, you're not doomed to be alone.

[SatoMori]

you do realize players tend keep a girl for mostly 3-4 weeks
then they break up

[Bandit74]

@SatoMori
Yeah but it's not because the girl didn't want him it's because he didn't want her, or because she found out he was playing. However if a player truly wanted a relationship and was able to stay loyal he could definitely have a successful relationship

[SatoMori]

<.< players are also douche bag'ish so its kinda easy to tell after a few weeks he is a players

[GoodDogNigel]

@SatoMori

Even if it's easy, the gal won't notice or care, (normally).

[SatoMori]

WOW im so done with this conversation

[Bandit74]

They still get what they want. They never wanted you for anything more than sex in the first place so he's most likely not going to care if you "figure it out". The player gets to sleeps with lots of girls, the girls fuck him early, within the first few weeks of meeting him. Then afterwards the girl will go for the"relationship guy" and play hard to get. The relationship guy gets to take her on dates and wait like a month or two for sex when the player got it free and easy.

If a player doesn't settle down its because he doesn't want to or can't stay loyal it's not because he can't get a girl who is willing to commit. he's the one who doesn't commit.

[Bandit74]

@SatoMori

oops forgot the mention

[SatoMori]

how did this become most helpful comment?

[Bandit74]

@SatoMori
because it was the most helpful

so I take it you disagree with me :/

[SatoMori]

your whole comment was pretty much saying players will only hook up with sluts and skanks

[Bandit74]

@SatoMori

I never used the terms sluts or skanks

are you going to deny that girls don't have sex early with some guys and then make other guys wait much longer?

like example Sally has 2 long-term boyfriends, she meets Jake who is attractive and smooth and talks her into bed within a week. He then dumps her after he's bored then Sally who is heart broken takes some time to herself and then dates Bob whom she doesn't have sex with until after 2 months of dating.

I feel like variations of that scenario are very common.

[SatoMori]

let me clarify this for your brain to comprehend I... AM... DONE... WITH... THIS... KAY?

[Bandit74]

@SatoMori
you're not very nice :(

[Anonymous]

No. Players are attractive, you'll always have some broad willing to cash in on a player ready to settle. More a matter of timing, do it at your peak so you can get the best girl possible. Make a list of what she needs to be and once you find her, hang up the cleats. You can afford to be picky too, so don't settle for a sub-par girl.

[checkyesjulietx]

I certainly would be put off a former player. It's not the kind of person I would want to settle down with. Not sure if they all end up alone, but I know many many girls who would be put off by their reputation if they suddenly decided they wanted to settle down

[Lena19]

In my personal experience with seeing my older brother, he's 38 years old and is alone, yes. If you don't change your attitude towards every girl you meet, there is that high chance of being alone for the rest of your life.

[lemonlimetime]

I'm guessing so. Im obviously not a genius or anything but I'm pretty sure a lot of women will be smart enough by then to know whether or not a guys playing.

[TheDevilInside]

I wish they would end up alone. That would be the fate they deserve, no?

But unfortunately, there are always people dumb enough to "take" them. I just hope they get hurt the same way later, the way they have hurt so many people before.

[Asker]

But I don't want a dump at the end want a nice and sweet girl.

[TheDevilInside]

then you have to do what you want people to do with you: be nice and sweet. Stop being a player. Karma is a bitch.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

If you keep disrespecting people you will more than likely end up alone.

Late thirties, leaving it kinda late huh? Or you planning on marrying and having babies the moment you meet?

[Asker]

I don't disrespecting girls just love my SO and lie to others to get laid. I don't like to have babies but its the way how family works so I will do it for my future wife.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

Lying is being disrespectful. Lying to those girls and lying to your SO.

What you need to do is learn some self control. That's how you stop being a terrible partner, you stop putting your dick in other women.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

Do you have low self esteem? Do you fuck these girls because you can't possibly turn down sex in case you don't ever get it again, or are you just an incredibly weak person who can't control themselves?

[Asker]

Had sad childhood.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

That's not really answering the questions.

[Asker]

That makes me the person who i am.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

So are you a person with low self esteem? Are you weak willed?

[KDA20]

I think that is what happens - Players find it very hard to settle down and playing is a young mans game and you just become a lonely old lounge lizard.

[Silverliningxo]

Even players find. The one i belive that true love is always found and that will help the person change for the better its not only love needed for you to change its trust understanding and patience ! A girl out there will help you forget all the rest unless you already found her and lost her then your assed out !

[BobbyBrown23]

Lol, look at how many bitter women voted yes. Butthurt much?

[GalaxyHotChoc]

Well if you keep fucking with people's feelings the same will happen to you one day

[Asker]

I don't want it for myself. I want to give and receive love when ready to settle down.

[Kshppatel]

No they end up happy because they get the girl no matter what.

[Asker]

I want to get the one how I love when ready to settle down the one who deserves my love.

[Kshppatel]

People who disliked know it's true. Girls want the Ayer that can get any girl not the guy who will give you anything. I know this from experience.

[PiuBelloAmante]

only if they are broke...

[Anonymous]

only if you have no money to provide for a family.

[Asker]

Have enough money to start and support a family.

[Opinion Owner]

then you're good to go. you already excel in lying.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, but I definitely hope so

[blondfrog]

Yeah they mostly do