I was a player for a bit. I was a bit of a late bloomer in comparison to others. In high school all my friends were dating and I was too shy to talk to girls despite being quite good looking. So once I got older and I gained the confidence, got better at chatting women up and started getting laid, I was like a kid in a candy store.
At first I wasn't great and I'd get laid here and there, but eventually I could get a new girl every weekend either from a club or from online. It was at that point that it began to get old. Before I loved the chase, but later it had become routine, easy, no challenge. I also had little in common with these girls other than sexual attraction.
It was after I'd gotten that out of my system that I started looking for something more serious.
As a former disliker of players and now into my later 20s as a potential player by the time i'm 30... the answer is no. I purely just want sex and some emotion in a relationship but they'd all barely last 2 years or so max. And mutually on her part to from the beginning. Why settle for one woman for married life if i could just date for decades on end, a new woman every other year. I move on easily, you see :)
I think they want the relationship AND the thrill and affirmation of being able to hook up when they want to.
No. They want sexy and bragging rights, that’s it. If you start confusing them for someone that wants a real relationship then you will be their next victim.
nope
after some time they are incapable to sustain a relationship, maybe they have been never capable of that
No because then they wouldn't be players
Who knows. Some players suddenly meet the one.
Sometimes
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