Do players in the end really want love and a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I was a player for a bit. I was a bit of a late bloomer in comparison to others. In high school all my friends were dating and I was too shy to talk to girls despite being quite good looking. So once I got older and I gained the confidence, got better at chatting women up and started getting laid, I was like a kid in a candy store.

At first I wasn't great and I'd get laid here and there, but eventually I could get a new girl every weekend either from a club or from online. It was at that point that it began to get old. Before I loved the chase, but later it had become routine, easy, no challenge. I also had little in common with these girls other than sexual attraction.

It was after I'd gotten that out of my system that I started looking for something more serious.

[icecreamanmam]

As a former disliker of players and now into my later 20s as a potential player by the time i'm 30... the answer is no. I purely just want sex and some emotion in a relationship but they'd all barely last 2 years or so max. And mutually on her part to from the beginning. Why settle for one woman for married life if i could just date for decades on end, a new woman every other year. I move on easily, you see :)

[R3DthatDude]

No. They want sexy and bragging rights, that’s it. If you start confusing them for someone that wants a real relationship then you will be their next victim.

[Anonymous]

nope
after some time they are incapable to sustain a relationship, maybe they have been never capable of that

[Avicenna]

I think they want the relationship AND the thrill and affirmation of being able to hook up when they want to.

[pigoat]

No because then they wouldn't be players

[OddBeMe]

Who knows. Some players suddenly meet the one.

[coolhandroo]

Sometimes