Sounds like you need to make a choice, because if he is cheating, then he will always cheat, and you will always forgive him. If he isn't cheating, then why does he not trust you, surely to have a relationship as good as yours, he has to trust you 100% and you him, but you don't, and nor does he, so to me, this says the relationship is damaged. How much, only you know that, but for him to not involve you in his nights out is also strange to me. I personally think you deserve better, because a guy who is into his woman, would never treat you in a way where you could express your feelings in a way you have here, so really, you should move on and make room for a guy who would effortlessly show you just how much you really do mean to him, and not take you for granted, and trust you, which is needed for any relationship to work, x
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Well, I guess this should just serve as an example that getting involved with cheaters is a bad idea. The whole "this time will be different" theory pretty much never happens. A person willing to break things off with their significant other for you will almost always do the same to you for somebody else.
If anything, the only thing I would do is apologize to your ex boyfriend for being so selfish. Aside from that I'd say this thing is going to play out how it's going to play out (the relationship is doomed in my opinion).
I don't think things are going to work with the two of you. You started a relationship based on cheating, so both of you believe the other is capable of it. You should've left the first time he cheated on you, because he's now made it very clear he's capable of cheating on anyone, and that it wasn't just an exception for you. Now, he doesn't trust you either, because he's done it to you and he knows you've done it to other people.
There is no trust and no consistency. You haven't cheated on this relationship, but he has, and that's enough to realize he just can't be trusted. He also doesn't believe he can trust you even though he clearly still has feelings. Trust is #1 in a relationship, there's no getting around that. No trust, no relationship.
My guess? He wants to do his own thing but keep you hooked. So if he makes you feel like the sorry one then you'll be constantly waiting for him to let you back in while he's free to go be single...yet always have you on call. By telling you he still loves you, he's able to string you along because you're going to feel guilty and try to prove your loyalty constantly no matter what he does or how flaky he is...because all he has to do is play hurt.
He's THAT much older and yet being so childish? I say RUN as fast as you can. He is the one who is older and he should be taking charge in a smart manner. Any man who can't handle a woman his own age and has to date that much younger, right there you know you're dealing with a flake.
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He needs give you space, to go out with your girlfriend
he is trying to confuse you which is sad, beach time
should be spent with you and him only, not him and his
friends , I'm sorry i may be wrong but girls need space
if a he doesn't place trust in you, the relationship
will never grow, oh gawd some guys have it lucky and
they blow it all the way, kinda pisses me off.He cheated on his gf for you... What makes you think he want going to duo the same to you? You both are cheaters anyways he's jusy at a higher level though
He's cheating on you and he's a shitbag. You're an idiot if you think you can do anything/build anything with this guy.
You guys established a culture of cheating and it's caught up to you guys. Karma...
LMFAO at all these female users on here sticking up for one another. The QA did admit she cheated herself so why is anyone acting like she's innocent? I thought a cheater was a cheater regardless of gender.
He is cheating on you definitely. You're a fool if you can't see that.
weird he is sending mixed signals
You're both cheaters. What do you expect?
uhhh, lol. just lol
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