- All's fair in love and war
- Stealing someone's fiance or fiancee is wrong
Most Helpful Guy
It's no different to placing a bet just before the hammer falls. She's not married off or his yet. Anyway it's not like a woman is property, if she decides she'd rather be with me and I want to be with her it would stupid for her to go ahead with the marriage.
Most Helpful Girl
First of all, there's no such thing as stealing another person.
- if you go after them knowing they're involved with someone else, you're a shitbag
- if they leave their partner for you, that's THEIR DECISION
We're talking adults here, which means it's a series of choices. Nobody forces anyone to leave or go after another. You can't steal someone, who has loyalty trouble and is easily swayed by some hot tail. They consciously chose to leave their fiancée/wife/husband for somebody else.
So my answer is no, I would not go after a taken person. Engagement/marriage makes little difference, because the act itself is a scummy one whether the person is married or just dating someone exclusively.