Would you marry someone who’s cheated on you?

[Anonymous]

the title says all... or would you give a second chance?

[Via_8662]

The knee-jerk reaction to a question like this is always going to be no. Cheating can be a lot more complicated in a long term or serious relationship though. I would never recommend jumping into marriage with someone who cheated on you. If you want to give the relationship a second chance you need to spend an adequate amount of time working through the cheating and trying to build back some level of trust before moving forward. I've read that it usually takes like 1-2 years for that to happen. There are tons of psychology articles you can find through a quick Google search that explain what has to happen to fix a relationship after someone has cheated. These things include forcing the cheating partner to figure out what caused them to stray, there has to be true remorse, complete openness and honesty, etc. Ultimately it's up to you to decide if you still love your partner enough to go through that process since it's not an easy one.

[Flower7]

No, we definitely wouldn't be getting married! We wouldn't even continue to be in a relationship if I found out he had cheated. I have no tolerance for that at all.

[apollo3000]

No.
Not because say, having sex, hurts. But because that person doesn't know how to confront me and instead goes to demean me behind my back.
In my experience so far (and it isn't all-knowing) - a person like that doesn't change. Perhaps you could change enough to be reserved and not get to that stage with them, but that poses the question 'why bother with someone like that'? (people like that typically self-ruin later anyhow - can you save them? I don't know)

[cheapshotbob]

nope im not wasting my 28 years of not being with a girl just foo her to cheat, she needs to start walking, because im not giving up my 28 years of staying STD free for a whore which is which she is pretty much for cheating.

[ThiccBoai]

She would have needed a good reason why she did it. I don't know for sure but I can see it going both ways. It would really depend on the situation. I think that after talking about it we might be able to continue, but I tend to have trust issues so might not work out. I really don't know for sure

[startingfitness]

she will cheat again. 100%.

[ThiccBoai]

Humans do tend to repeat behavior

[Ripper_E]

I'd focus on whether or not I could give them a second chance or not and whether or not we grow stronger than before they cheated. I'm not jumping straight to marriage.

[jasco]

Very rare if i ever given someone a second chance for any reason unless i really like that person but no i wouldn't if you cheated then you need to learn the lesson of cheating and realizing that it will lead to nothing but bs so good luck

[DCooper]

Shit, I wouldn't marry someone who hasn't cheated on me (yet) either, so...

[IMainHanzo]

Yeah, some (all emphasis on this word) people change. Just depends on much those people love and respect you to make that leap/change

[startingfitness]

no.
i think anyone who would do that is an idiot. you are at the perfect time to exit cost-free, and you throw that chance away?

[Unit1]

I'm not a freaking sick cuckold.
snowball in hell chances.

[Siavash_1990]

The only thing i am sure of is that nothing is for sure EXCEPT this! I will not marry someone who has cheated on me, regardless.

[btbc92]

You would have to be a fool. Not me.

[Anonymous]

unfortunately I gave the woman I love numerous chances to many and all she did was cheat

[jkm1864]

Once a cheater always a cheater.

[nodnol32]

I's rather stay single.

[Yads_Is_Back]

No. Marriage requires commitment.

[VV3ZZY]

If you like throwing money away, go for it!

[loveslongnails]

Depends how sexxxy the other woman was !! LOL

[Compassiondude101]

What the fuck kind of a question is that

[gandolph3]

in an open relationship, no one cheats

[Bhavin2184]

No..

[Avicenna]

Hell no

[JosyJosy]

Haha no.