Would you marry someone who cheated while you were dating?

[InquisitiveMan]

Yes

No

[AZMoon]

I never understood the “dating” thing for I am a one women kind of guy so it was always confusing to hear people talk. Correct me if I am wrong but there seems to be this “line in the sand” type of thing when people are dating. I will try and explain. “It’s not serious we are just dating” okay? So.. you can “date” other people? That says to me you can’t be cheating if you’re only dating. Because if you say no you can’t see others then your no longer “dating” You’re now boyfriend and girlfriend or “in a relationship”. Isn’t it called dating because it gives description of where 2 people are in getting to know each other? The non commitment stage per say. But yet this question uses the word “dating” and “cheating” to be relevant together by the way people answer. Hence this “line in the sand” there must be I don’t get.

[bondobilly]

Nope. Trust is gone. The can reset with someone else

[btbc92]

You have to be crazy to get married to a cheater. Since I'm celibate, I'm going to pretend this is real. First of all, if that person cheated on me, it's because he can't wait for marriage for sex, like he said he would personally do. Especially if he doesn't even want to wait for a year to make that decision for marriage, goes to show me that person is no good. Again, you have to be stupid and crazy to get married to somebody who cheated on you. He would most likely cheat on you again.

[live-read-love]

It really depends. If they are honestly sorry and don't show repeating behaviors, and if you thought you can truly forgive them, it might be worth a chance.

If you didn't break up with them for cheating, clearly you want to be with them.

[EvilAngel114]

Nope. We wouldn't have even made it to the engagement phase if he cheated. It would been over immediately.

[AzureGirl]

I wouldn't even be dating someone who cheated on me, let alone consider marriage.

[karahiri]

nope. i think i'd end the relationship immediately.

[5x9BOB]

That's in Psych 101... If someone cheats, beats or causes mental abuse towards you, then there is a 98% they'll do it again. Those kind of moments aren't just moments of weakness. Whether alcohol was to blame or drugs, there's still that dark desire that overtakes their sense of responsibility, their morals and they're straight-up decency. So that would be a big fat NO!

[Goodwifie]

No, because if he can't help himself while we are only dating then he won't be able to control himself if the marriage hits hard times.

[aalis]

Hi how are u

[Goodwifie]

@aalis I'm good thank you
How about yourself?

[aalis]

I am also fine, thank you too

[Cammy137]

I wouldn't marry someone anyway... but no, certainly not someone who has cheated. If someone cheats on me that's automatically it over

[TriTree]

Nah... that happened in the lesser step how cam one not be skeptic going into the big step. Too risky

[Pink2000]

I thought about it and it's actually hard. Would I want to throw away 2+ years of a relationship

[parvulus]

once a cheater, always a cheater.

[Anonymous]

No, once a cheater always a cheater.

[ThatGuy329]

Can't regain trust so no u

[cupidkisses]

I wouldn't be together with him anymore

[kenjaminSlutton716]

No I don't marry corpses

[TheIceCreamQueen]

Not a chance in hell

[center51]

Nope. They'll cheat again

[Claire2017]

Nooooo

[Kaylyne]

No...

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Definitely not