Would You Want Your Fiance/Fiancee To Be Honest & Call Off The Wedding If They Fall Out Of Love?

Question

the invites are send out and many people are excited that you guys are getting married... well until your SO realises they're no longer interested... HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION!

connemara_crocodile · Accepted Answer

Yes, I would prefer her to tell straight away, and I would make her pay for all the expenses paid till the day. I'm not marrying someone that doesn't love me and I'm not paying for a wedding I'm not having.

In this scenario the SO made a bad call and I think she/he has to deal with the consequences.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

If it's more than "cold feet", I'd rather she ends it before we get married and end up unhappy and divorced. It would take me a while to get over her, but I'm pretty sure we would both move on.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Initially i was hurt but im actually glad things ended before i paid for everything (and i do mean I was the one that was gonna have to pay for everything lol)

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

Yes absolutely. It's ok to fall out of love, its not ok to pretend.

SnowedIn · Answer

Yes. 100%. Don't make yourself or me miserable. Invitations and costs are momentary... the marriage (theoretically) ins't.

LiamJHayden · Answer

If based upon the emotionalism of falling in and out of love rather than a commitment I would want it called off.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

Yes, I would have if she didn't want to go on. To be honest, I know that one of her friends actually hoped for her to nope out.

DavidRaul · Answer

Yes i would be ok with it. Its better to call of before, otherwise she would just pretend after the marriage. Thats rather more painful

slatyb · Answer

Absolutely. If that's you, do not continue with the wedding.

AdithyaR · Answer

Absolutely. The material cost of a wedding is nothing compared to the emotional frustration of being with someone who doesn't care about me.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, it sucks but it is better than going through it and enduring a bad marriage.

AimeeKyle · Answer

ABSOLUTELY….. Why start something if everyone isn’t on the same page / have a positive outlook for the future. Get out or delay.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Love is a choice so if she's choosing not to love me then fine, tell me and be gone.

call_me_scar · Answer

I'd hate it and be a reck but I've seen failed marriages before and wouldn't want to be part of it

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. I would want her to be honest and do the right thing. If you need to walk away, walk away.

SlavicThor · Answer

Yeah totally. I don't think I'll ever marry to be honest. It's just not worth it

anton_dee · Answer

Yessss. Very important. No use fuckin up each other's lives by keeping mum.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

Yes I would. That would be easier to solve than a divider

shortster · Answer

Definitely. Until the ring is on the finger you should go with your feelings.

Jerre · Answer

Yes. I would if she did not love me, I would not want to marry her.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Definitely a marriage without love is torture for both sides

WhitneySnow · Answer

Yeah. I would.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I'd expect them to honest about everything

Kaneki05 · Answer

Of course.

NathanDavis · Answer

Yes.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Yes.

Would You Want Your Fiance/Fiancee To Be Honest & Call Off The Wedding If They Fall Out Of Love?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

How would you handle it if your partner called off your wedding the day of?

Would You Want Your Fiance/Fiancee To Be Honest & Call Off The Wedding If They Fall Out Of Love?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

How would you handle it if your partner called off your wedding the day of?

We're glad to see you liked this post.