Would you call off your engagement if you found someone with a more intense connection?

[Anonymous]

[hahahmm]

No. Because I am a loyal type guy. I never cheated even on a girlfriend & a girlfriend is a lower level relationship than engagement. To explore something with another woman to even know whether she might be "better"/"worse" than the current woman you would need to be disloyal. Also, I was with my fiance for years before I asked her to marry me. It's not like you can even get to know a new person instantly to compare them to the current one, even if you wanted to.

My theory is that if you're disloyal it's going to get easier and easier for you to break your promises in all areas of life. I never wanted to be that guy.

That said, if you don't really want to get married then call of the engagement. It sounds like you have doubts.

[boggboss]

I wouldn't be looking for strong connections if I was engaged in the first place

[Asker]

Thank you! 🙂

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic dilemma of the heart versus commitment. Here's the spicy take: connections can be electrifying, leaving us dizzy with what-ifs. But remember, love isn't just about that initial spark; it's about the ember that burns steadily through storms. If you're contemplating calling off an engagement, it means you're already in deep water. Reflect on why the new connection feels more intense. Is it the thrill of the new or something your current relationship genuinely lacks? Lovebombing ourselves into a new romance might feel like the plot of a rom-com, but life isn't a 90-minute screenplay. Before making any Hollywood-style decisions, consider the foundations of both relationships. Sometimes, what we're really seeking is a way to reignite the fire at home rather than a wild blaze that could burn out as quickly as it started. 🔥💖

[Anonymous]

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