- It's fine to have unequal amounts of attraction, it will always happenVote A
- It's not good to have one person like the other more everVote B
- N/A / other (I'll explain my view below)Vote C
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It's really common in the early stages of a relationship. It will also flare up again when NRE (new relationship energy) fades, because it will usually fade for one person before it fades for the other.
But the goal would be to have those NRE-fuelled bumps and bruises normalize into both partners eventually feeling real, genuine love for one an other as the relationship matures. If both people don't love each other once the NRE fades, then the relationship could be in some trouble.
So... yes, it's ok in the beginning, and during the fading of the 'honeymoon' phase. But no, it's not ok long-term. After you've been together 5 years, for example, you should both be on the same page.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE