Polls: Dating

Vitiligo is a skin condition in which some areas of the skin are lighter than others. I have vitiligo on my shoulders and on my, well.. groin area. It makes me very reluctant from dating girls because I know that if a girl rejected me because of it, I just don't think I could recover from that. I know it is cowardly but it scares me quite a lot. I am trying to get over it. So because of this, anytime a girl wants to go further, I stop her.

How exactly do you go about telling someone that you have vitiligo? I want a serious relationship but at the same time, I am 19, I want to have some fun and I don't want this stupid thing to get in the way of ant of that. I have been on a couple of first dates where the girls want to jump straight into bed, if that is the case what do I say? Just say nothing? A quick side note right before we get into bed? How would you react if someone told you?

Ultimately, I guess I am just looking for some opinions as to what a girl would think if I told her as well as how and when would be the best time to tell her.

The poll may seem a little silly but as I said I want to find the right girl but if along the way there are girls who just want sex, then I wouldn't mind pursuing that and I wouldn't mind knowing what they think prior to doing it. For the 'would/wouldn't deter me' part assume that you had already decided that you were going to sleep with me/the guy. Lol.

This image isn't me (obviously) but the girl in the picture has a similar skin tone to me, so it looks similar to this.

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The date went really well, we were already laughing a bit in the first couple minutes when I picked her up. During the movie I had my arm on her leg and at one point she was resting her shoulder on mine. I also had her laughing throughout the movie as well.. after the movie it was basically me making the conversation as if she was nervous and didn't know what to say. So what does maybe mean lol? Should I just let her go.. How do I respond to "yeah maybe"?

So I'm talking to this girl and I feel like we're really hitting it off together, it's great. So I thought I had this brilliant idea for a first date. We both longboard so... I thought, why not longboard? Makes sense right? I was thinking longboarding way out into the countryside where there's a small, very cozy resturant, it's about a 2 hour ride there and a 2 hour ride back. Is this (actually) a pretty good idea or is that just in my head, input?

Which option do you prefer and why?

The past 3 months me and this girl have texted everyday and hung out almost every Sunday. However, I'm always the one to ask her to hang out. I've brought that up to her, saying she can ask me to hang out too, but she said she never asks anyone to hang out (not even her best friend).

Anyway, the past 3 Sundays when I asked her if she was free to hang out, she's responded by saying she wants to, but she's way too busy with whatever schoolwork is due the next day. I honestly can't tell if they are excuses if she really is that busy.

So this Sunday is coming up, and I'm not even sure if it is worth my time to ask her if she's free. I really want to see her (because I've been planning on telling her I like her) but I feel like I've been coming off as desperate. Plus, I know that if I don't initiate a hangout, we won't see each other because she never asks anyone to hangout. Any thoughts/advice is appreciated!

could be anything for whatever reason