So I met this guy on Tinder ( I know, not the best place to find love...) but we talked a lot etc Clearly to me he wasn't the douchebag type and so on. He asked for my snapchat which I gave him. The number of snaps really depended of the day. Sometimes it was just a few or nothing but on other days we could send each other at least 20 pics. He proposed to go running with me or studying or watch a movie etc. but we couldn't because we had our exams first. It also became our habit to send each other some 'sexier' pics but it never went overboard (by this I mean fully naked or lingerie or showing boobs and similar things) because I wouldn't have been able to deal with that. I had the feeling we got closer. When we both left on a different skitrip he was so sweet in his messages before the departure and clearly let me know he wanted us to stay in touch. That's the feeling he always gave me: the desire to meet me in real life. We got home and he basically asked me out but he said at the same time that it couldn"t work out because he couldn't be there on time. After comparing our schedules, we saw we had both a lot of time free on Thursday and Friday . So I thought that he would ask me out again but he didn't. I started talking to him on snapchat on Sunday again and he invited me over to his house because his parents aren't there. And we had basically arranged eveything except the date and the time. When I said him to keep me updated, he didn't answer. After two days I asked him, because of practical reasons, if I could still come over to watch that movie. He opened my message on snapchat but didn't answer it. It's been a day now and I don't know what to do. I don't believe he just forgot to answer... Should I forget him? I know he's just a guy I met on Tinder, but it's been already 2 months we're talking and sending each other pics and I got attached to him. Or should I just ask him why he didn't answer and tell him if he's not interested anymore that it's okay?
- He's not going to text back.Vote A
- He will text back.Vote B
- I should just forget about him.Vote C
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Well I've been in his shoes quite a few times and I can't directly speak for him but it could be a number of things: he could be busy, discovered something undesirable about you, found another girl, or wussed out. My guess, at this point, is that he wussed out. I've talked with girls that seemed really great and we talked in a similar fashion but then when it actually comes time to meet up the pressure kind of gets to us and we bail.
If I were you, knowing what I do, I'd do two things. First, I'd ask for some sort of explanation because in my opinion you deserve one. Secondly, I'd make it clear that there is no pressure and that you just want to hang out with him. Put the ball in his court. Let him figure it out. At least that's what I would have liked.0
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