I met a guy like that 2 months ago. Maybe it's even the same guy? haha! Anyways, I think he just wants to hang out. Like friends. Since he moves around he is looking for people to hang out with and he wants to explore places. He is probably very busy with his work too. I met my guy on Tinder and I thought that meeting people on Tinder means looking for someone romantically/sexually, like dates and stuff, or nothing. But some people, especially the ones who move around often, use Tinder to find friends as well. So I was very surprised when he friendzoned me. But I got over it, we're still friends. He moved to another city 5 days ago, for business.
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I know exactly what this is. He's talking and going out with multiple people, spread thin, and it doesn't look like you're one of the priority ones. He wants to keep a hold of you in case others don't work out though. He will probably keep talking about places to go and shows to see, but won't end up doing any of them, and instead at some point he might try to arrange a situation where he can hook up with you, or he'll disappear one day and never reply back.
This guy is a waste of time. I would cut him loose and spend your time on another guy or guys who are more engaged in dating you and don't flake.
He is joking
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