Why did my crush kept on walking by when he saw me with a guy?

[Anonymous]

I was in the 8th floor at my college talkign to a very attractive male friend of mines. He invited em to sit next to him ata resting spot where college student go at to just rest and chill with a nice view. This friends of mines know who I like, so he wouldn't try nothign on me although I feel he does like me. Anyways, the guy I like whose a security guard in his early 20s started patrolling the floor and usually when you're done with one floor you keep it moving to the next. He in the other hand would go down stairs then comeback, and walk pass us like friken 5 time. I even saw him look down at me from the floor above me while I was speaking to my guy friend. But then from that time he'll just walk by and not even look over and over again. When I left out the building I saw him staring at me like "what's going on" kinda expression My crush shy so am I. But why would eh passing by? Is not normal for him to do this? and I Never seen him like that. He's usually relax in one place.

[kholland65]

He's trying to figure out what's going on between you and this guy friend and to see if he can catch you flirting with him. He wants to know if you are more or less taken so he doesn't have to waste any more of his time.

Guys are territorial. We are the opposite of women in that, we don't like a girl who is with another guy(s). Not only is that a tough situation to navigate if you are trying to approach this girl and eventually ask her on a date, but we simply don't like to fight other men for a girl when we don't have to. If we feel the girl is already getting attention from other men. We just go look for an easier target, i.e. a girl who has no guys around her.

Women are the opposite, they find guys attractive who are surrounded or getting attention from another female(s), weather they realize it or not. Women are wired differently and respond to what's called pre-selection. They assume the guy must be good mating material since the other girls have already implied their approval by their interest. It also confirms to her that he must be of high status since other women want to be with him. High status is what women subconsciously seek since in their eyes it means better genes being passed on to their offspring.

[Asker]

We weren't sitting like that close. All we did was have a friendly convo. I was engage in the convo but is not liek I was tryign to make my crush jealous. But he kept walking pass there.

[kholland65]

I think you are underestimating the ego's of men. Many times all it takes if for you to be within 5 ft of a guy, and its protector/hunter instincts just kick in. Not that we always act upon them. But we're def not happy about what we're seeing and wishing that other guy was gone.

[jmoo1710]

I mean, its pretty obvious, you know why, he saw you with another guy so he didn't approach. Unless you are his girlfriend already or you are like in a exclusive stance he won't approach if he sees you with another guy, you alone with other guy I mean. So, that's probably why.

[Asker]

There was time I was alone where he could have approached me many times and he never did. I actually was the one doing all the chasing at first until he started showing interest in the middle and so I sort of gave up, but I still like him. He started showing interest by walking pass me like numerous of time when I was with my female friend. then this time around I felt like he was just spying .

[jmoo1710]

As I said he was probably jealous and mad, he probably though you like this other dud, but it will pass if you guys keep hanging out, if you just pull back now, he might think you don't like him anymore, but you like the other guy now. But I mean I understood you two already talk and hang out, if not then he is just shy to approach and when he saw you with another guy he felt bad.

[AOJ85513]

he probably likes you and is jelous that you are hanging out with guys that aren't him so hang out with that guy he likes I'm guessing . so tell him there just freinds and ask him out or something

answer my question ? please

[Moloch]

Because he thought you were flirting with the other guy.

Note: Never go out with a male friend of yours if you intend on getting hit on by your crush or any other guy for that matter, the approach in itself is very difficult/ballsy, and seeing you with another man is like putting a stop sign up.

[M_A_X]

Like has been said, he either is jealous, or thinks that something is going on between you and this other guy and doesn't want to rock the boat.

[Anonymous]

he may have been working on getting up the nerve to make a move, and you with another guy just sent him mixed signals

[Anonymous]

college students stay out late. he probably just let you guys go.