There’s a guy I knew from high school. We were in the same grade together and shared a few classes together, even though we barely spoke.
10 years later he follows me on Instagram and starts sending me private messages. We get chatting and I find out that he has a boyfriend and I asked him if he’s gay, and he told me he’s bisexual. He said him and his boyfriend are in an open relationship and that he is allowed to have sex with men and women outside his relationship. He tells me that he finds it very hard to get girls to sleep with him even though he is also attracted to girls.
What is angering me is, he presumes I’m going to be “that girl” who is going to be ok with having casual sex with him, when I have no interest in sleeping with him whatsoever. For a year now he’s been trying to sexually pursue me. He keeps inviting me over to his place and says things like “my boyfriend is out of town, and I’m all lonely here on my own”. And then says “you can come over for the night but I’m going to have to kick you out first thing in the morning”. Every time he invites me over, I make up excuses
There is a school reunion meeting coming up in a month, and I really don’t want to go (mainly for that reason so I don’t have to bump into him). Anyways, he keeps asking me if he can crash at my place after the reunion.
Why is he still trying to sexually pursue me and why does he feel entitled to sleep with me, even when I keep making excuses to not meet up with him.
