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Polls: Dating

For men who go 50//50 on dates, how do you tell the woman you aren't paying for her?

How do you tell the woman you aren't paying for her. Do you tell her before the date? Wait till the middle of the date? Wait till the check comes? The 50/50 thing just seems so embarrassing on the man's part. I just...
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How do you tell the woman you aren't paying for her. Do you tell her before the date? Wait till the middle of the date? Wait till the check comes? The 50/50 thing just seems so Show More
I tell her before the date
I tell her during the date
I tell her to pay for her half once the check comes
Something else
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More appealing
Neither
Less appealing
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Would it be off putting if you found out that someone you were dating wasn't working, because they were living off of their kids child support money?

Like if they had gotten pregnant by a rich man, or knocked up a rich woman, and they were using that money for themselves and their kids obviously.
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Like if they had gotten pregnant by a rich man, or knocked up a rich woman, and they were using that money for themselves and their kids obviously. Show More
Hell no, would love it
No, I would do the same thing
Yeah, I don't believe a man should live off of another woman's money
Yeah, In my opinion they should still be doing something else
Yeah, wouldn't want someone that's has a baby mama/daddy (too much potential drama)
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Girls in your 20’s, how would you feel if you meet a new guy, have a few good dates, then he reveals he wears a wig/toupee/fake hair etc?

PLEASE NOTE Curious as I'm 26 and have a telogen alopecia so still have eyebrows etc, but got into full custom male wigs and they look great, just worried how women my age view it. Please note this does come off...
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PLEASE NOTE Curious as I'm 26 and have a telogen alopecia so still have eyebrows etc, but got into full custom male wigs and they look great, just worried how women my age view Show More
I’m over 29 (please share opinion below)
I honestly think it’s cool a guy puts in the extra effort to look good, wouldn’t bother me! I’d still date/enter a relationship with him!
It wouldn’t bother me at all, if it looks real I would still be attracted to him and enter a relationship with him!
I really don’t like bald and even if the wig looked real it just wouldn’t help me overlook it
Just couldn’t get passed a guy wearing hair
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Yes, but depends on their reason why they did it.
Yes, their past relationship has nothing to do with their relationship.
No, I don't care for their reason they did it.
Other
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Should I tell him I've never been a relationship/date before?

I am 24 and I feel a bit insecure about telling the guy I am dating that I haven't date anyone else before. How should I answer if he asks about whether I've dated anyone else or how many relationships I've been in? Which...
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I am 24 and I feel a bit insecure about telling the guy I am dating that I haven't date anyone else before. How should I answer if he asks about whether I've dated anyone else or how Show More
I've never been in a relationship before.
I'd rather discuss this later./ Can we talk about this later?
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Is it strange that I don't have a preference for dating/marrying a person from my own ethnicity?

For some reason I never have matched vibes with a girl from my own ethnicity (Bengali). I have no problem in being friends with a Bengali woman but I can't see myself dating/marrying one. Does that make me racist towards...
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For some reason I never have matched vibes with a girl from my own ethnicity (Bengali). I have no problem in being friends with a Bengali woman but I can't see myself dating/marrying Show More
Yes, it's racist
No, it's not.
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Are picky about what name your future love interest has?

I sure have a name in mind and if she's not name insert here instant turn off instant deal-breaker lol As they say "I'm reaching for the stars here" with lofty unrealistic expectations
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I sure have a name in mind and if she's not name insert here instant turn off instant deal-breaker lol As they say "I'm reaching for the stars here" with lofty unrealistic Show More
I have his ideal name in mind
I have her ideal name in mind
As long as they're not my ex's name or other bad vibe name (past baggage)
Other
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Am I being unreasonable for getting irritated when guys say “text me” vs asking for my number first?

This has been happening a few times on the apps recently, not as extreme as being beta per say but feels less chivalrous.
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This has been happening a few times on the apps recently, not as extreme as being beta per say but feels less chivalrous. Show More
Yes
No
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The 20s
The 40s and 50s
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Men, please help?

The guy I’ve liked for a year & a half is currently deployed. When he gets back, he’ll be here for a month before he moves across the country. He’s kept in touch while deployed & says he wants to stay connected after he...
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The guy I’ve liked for a year & a half is currently deployed. When he gets back, he’ll be here for a month before he moves across the country. He’s kept in touch while deployed & says Show More
Walk away
Hold on
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Why do see so many White Guys with unnatractive East Asian Women?

Look at Mark Zuckerberg & so on. Love Is Really Blind
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Look at Mark Zuckerberg & so on. Love Is Really Blind Show More
Yes, love is blind. They got bad taste
Speechless, why the fools always go for the fugly ones.
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Girls, why do some of you make your boyfriends fat?

I see it all the time, and everytime i'm dating someone they always make sure I eat way too much.
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I see it all the time, and everytime i'm dating someone they always make sure I eat way too much. Show More
I don't
I do and I have reasons
Other
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Yes, we assume she's getting hit on by guys most of the time & she's not single
We didn't know that due to intimidation they hardly get hit on & are single. Everybody got 2 eyes but not the same view. Never realised
Impossible
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Yes that’s fine - message to end or let it fade
No that’s not acceptable - it should be done in person or face to face
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Yeah, already do
Yeah, as long as they are a great person and has stuff going for them
Yeah, as long as there's nothing that's a major deal breaker in the equation
Nah, too complicated
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You can end things by message, you never became official
You should do it in person after 4-5 months of dating
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Do you think she is interested in me, or is she just being friendly?

Hi all, We went to a ball over Christmas it went well, she wanted to take some photos with me no matter what with the professional camera, and then put the casual ones we took together on her Whats App story, I'm friends...
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Hi all, We went to a ball over Christmas it went well, she wanted to take some photos with me no matter what with the professional camera, and then put the casual ones we took together Show More
Friendzone, she only sees me as friend, stop trying
Interested into me, could go somewhere, keep going
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How many of you girls get guys asking you out in real life as in face 2 face?

Not including Insta DM, Dating Apps, Tik Tok, Facebook & Other Social Media Outlets. If yes face 2 face how do you girls get approached, what conversation starter/pick up lines & kind of places normally you get...
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Not including Insta DM, Dating Apps, Tik Tok, Facebook & Other Social Media Outlets. If yes face 2 face how do you girls get approached, what conversation starter/pick up lines & Show More
Everyday
Weekly Basis
Monthly
Single for 1 year
Single for 2 years
Single for 3 years
Single for 4 years
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When a man puts rules on what his partner can or cannot do, does it mean he's controlling?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_dkHsfO-U8/?igsh=NzFpM3pvMGN5ZHJ4
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Yes
No
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