family 1: you're a nanny for the child but the child is in the hospital to your job gets you temporary placement to help out with family #2.
family 2: Its day 1 orientation. While here temporarily you feel things go great. Then near the end of your shift the mom says, " I feel like your loyalty is to the other family so I don't feel like you're all in with my child. so I will be looking through other agencies for another nanny. so there will be a day where I tell the agency don't send you because I will be meeting other nannies who can work here permanently. And I don't know if you're going to stick to family 1 or be with us. "
so you tell your employer ," I won't return because you feel like the mom of family 2 wasn't pleased with your work." Yet mom of family 2 tells your employer they liked you after saying the above things to you. Would you still want to work with family 2? or would you feel like family 2 didn't like you?
I think Mom2 . Once somebody permanently and it just happens that you probably told her the story about family one so now she's going to use that as an excuse instead of just being honest insane look I really just want a permanent person the kind of sad that she had to go that way but I hope your employer understands what just happened she kind of manipulated things for her own benefit to get what she wants instead of thinking what could happen to you on the way that she even told the story and it kind of sucks I don't know if I'd want to work for a person like that
Exactly! She was manipulative and it backfired
Yeah I definitely would not want to work for a person like that