Do I come across as someone with their life together?

[Anonymous]

I graduated from a good college

have done several prestigious internships

was accepted fellowship to a great graduate school in a beautiful location

Have plenty of money saved, and plan to get a part time job in grad school

debt free and no addiction or criminal record

Have traveled to many countries

dress well and take care of my appearance, been told I should model before.

hobbies include hiking photography and writing

[BeMuse]

Nope.

[Asker]

Tell me why

[BeMuse]

People that have their life together don't tend to seek approval. They enjoy the life they have because things are working out for them and they are happy. When people are on the rocks, they start making lists of their qualities and showing them to other people hoping someone will pat them on the head so that they feel better.

[BeMuse]

You're like a girl posting half naked pictures with her ass in the middle of the image... It's like, sure that's all well and good, but she's a train wreck.

[Asker]

Both are born from insecurity

[BeMuse]

Yep, you're on it.