What to do if you feel you fail every job you get?

[Anonymous]

I struggle with keeping up and sometimes I get very embarrassed … I worked at my dream job as a baker and my boss was kind of a nightmare to work with.. I started having anxiety coming in.. she said I was a slow worker and she started kind of possibly saying things behind my back.

Trying to find confidence is hard… especially growing up hearing hurtful things about how you think even now as an adult

a guy I really liked even said “you think differently “… and i don’t think he meant it in a good way. Since he was rejecting me … after he ghosted on our first date

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's super rough. Having failure and rejection like that can really do a number on your self-confidence. But listen, don't you dare believe you're some kinda lost cause, cause you're not. Everyone struggles sometimes, especially when they're just starting out. Some bosses can be real jerks too - it says way more about her character than yours. You don't deserve to be treated like crap just cause you're still learning the ropes. As for that dude, who cares what he thinks? His loss! Don't let one bad date define you. You're way more than just how fast you work or what some jerk said. You just gotta believe in yourself, even when it's hard. Why don't you make a list of your best qualities - you're probably awesome at loads of things. And maybe take some time to do stuff that makes you feel good, like meeting with friends or a new hobby. You'll bounce back from this, I know it. Keep your head up high!

[laly520]

nothing to do
believe in urself n keep trying