Was I excluded from a meeting or am I being paranoid?

[ML2939]

I have recently returned back to work after being off sick with stress due to how my manager was treating me. Since I have been back to work I have noticed my manager has been telling me to not go to certain meetings. I had a meeting booked in with other people at my level at work and she told me to just ignore the meeting invite and not show up to the meeting.

Then another time she went through my weekly diary/schedule and told me to not go to a full staff meeting because it wouldn’t be anything relevant to my role and the meeting didn’t apply to me. I felt quite hurt though because whilst I wasn’t asked to be in the meeting with everyone else, I could see that other people my level were invited to the meeting and I saw the group chat and my manager was saying “dream team you are all amazing” which made me feel left out an ostracised.

Why am I being asked not to go to meetings anymore?

[Chazmatazz269]

Hahaha! You can have mine!
Meetings, the workplace equivalent of waiting rooms. Where absolutely nothing meaningful gets accomplished until you leave. All you do is talk about what was done and what can be done. Decisions are never made and productivity always suffers. And you actually want to be there?
Every single time i’m asked to attend a meeting, i ask if it’s mandatory. If it’s not, i don’t go. If it is, i go and then ask to be excused. If i can’t be excused, i spend the entire time trying to get everyone else to realize what a bunch of idiots they are and how useless their meetings are. I get thanked for my input! THAT is how stoopid meetings and the people that organize them are! They wouldn’t know real work if it slapped them in the face.

[DonFredoCorleone]

You are definitely not being paranoid

[In_Trance]

paranoid