I’ve been working at this job for over a year now.
I constantly feel left out.
There’s these paper slips that some of the employees fill out that tells fun facts about them and I wasn’t told about it at all when everyone was.
Most of them follow each other on social media platforms. Some of them don’t but a lot of them go and hangout and follow each other. A few of them went to a bar the other night and hung out which i didn’t take personal because a lot of us weren’t invited. Even some people who have left follow the managers on social media platforms and they follow them. Only like 2 of the managers asked if I’m on Instagram and that’s it.
Most of my coworkers are middle aged or overweight with children but some of them are my age too. They all connect on Facebook and stuff like that and I do feel kind of left out. Please don’t say anything like “ask them” or “go up to them” because I don’t wanna seem like a pick me
I’m a bubbly and cute 20 year old college student. I do my makeup nicely and can be aware that I kind of have a resting b face and I don’t look approachable at all and I feel like that scares some people off.
I’m not gonna sit here and say that I completely feel not included. small talk is really not the issue. A lot of my coworkers and I will have conversations and they’ll talk to me first. I’ve had deep conversations with some of them. One of my managers always compliments my makeup and calls me pretty.
It just never goes past that. 2 guys work with us and they’ve both engaged in long convos with me too. I have a boyfriend and everyone knows
I had one coworker who’s 36 and has a few kids who acts like I annoy her lol. I’m usually pretty quiet until people approach me. She called me crazy once lol and now when she comes to work she’ll come right next to me and won’t say hello or anything and speak to the managers who she follows which i think is super rude. I’m nothing but nice to her.
Why am I being left out? Lol
I constantly feel left out.
There’s these paper slips that some of the employees fill out that tells fun facts about them and I wasn’t told about it at all when everyone was.
Most of them follow each other on social media platforms. Some of them don’t but a lot of them go and hangout and follow each other. A few of them went to a bar the other night and hung out which i didn’t take personal because a lot of us weren’t invited. Even some people who have left follow the managers on social media platforms and they follow them. Only like 2 of the managers asked if I’m on Instagram and that’s it.
Most of my coworkers are middle aged or overweight with children but some of them are my age too. They all connect on Facebook and stuff like that and I do feel kind of left out. Please don’t say anything like “ask them” or “go up to them” because I don’t wanna seem like a pick me
I’m a bubbly and cute 20 year old college student. I do my makeup nicely and can be aware that I kind of have a resting b face and I don’t look approachable at all and I feel like that scares some people off.
I’m not gonna sit here and say that I completely feel not included. small talk is really not the issue. A lot of my coworkers and I will have conversations and they’ll talk to me first. I’ve had deep conversations with some of them. One of my managers always compliments my makeup and calls me pretty.
It just never goes past that. 2 guys work with us and they’ve both engaged in long convos with me too. I have a boyfriend and everyone knows
I had one coworker who’s 36 and has a few kids who acts like I annoy her lol. I’m usually pretty quiet until people approach me. She called me crazy once lol and now when she comes to work she’ll come right next to me and won’t say hello or anything and speak to the managers who she follows which i think is super rude. I’m nothing but nice to her.
Why am I being left out? Lol
