Life regarding questions?

[herambvedpathak]

I have turned 30 years old and haven’t figured out anything yet in life. Empty pockets are making me anxious, by gods grace I have a good family taking care of my needs no complaints about the current expenses. I have done a dozens of jobs and absconded within a period of 6 months I actually do not like the scolding behaviour of the seniors and right now I am really confused at the age of 30 about what should I do in life it feels like it’s all over.

Updates

7 mo

Yeah U got you 😌

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, don't beat yourself up too much about not having it all figured out yet at 30. Lots of people are in the same boat these days. Seems like you've been bouncing around from job to job which is normal at our age when you're still trying to find what you really want to do. Good thing is you got a family to support you so at least you're not stressed about money and stuff right now.

As for what to do, it sounds like you might need to think more about what you're actually interested in instead of just taking whatever job comes along. Is there something you always thought would be cool to do but never tried? Or any hobbies or skills you really enjoy that could turn into a career? Don't just take jobs for the money if you know you won't last long cause of the bosses yelling all the time. Not worth stressing yourself out like that.

Maybe try looking into some career counselling or taking an interest test online to see what careers might be a good match for you personality-wise. Or you could even consider going to school for something if you find the right thing. It's never too late to get more training, lots of people do career changes in their 30s these days.

Don't pressure yourself into making a final decision right away either. Take some time to think about what really sparks your interest instead of what seems easiest. And don't forget your hobbies and passions outside of work too - those are important for happiness. You'll figure it out dude, just don't stress so much that it's "all over." As long as you're breathing there's always a chance for something new, so keep your head up!

[herambvedpathak]

Thank you for your valuable I really appreciate it and your words gave a kind of relaxation to me.😌

[Oliverlogan263]

You're welcome man, no problem at all. It's always good to be able to vent to someone and get some reassurance when you're feeling stressed or lost. And hey, 30 really ain't that old! I know plenty of guys who bounced around different jobs til later in life before finding their thing.

As long as you keep your head up and keep pushing forward, even if it's just in little ways, you'll keep moving in the right direction. Just trust that you've got this whole life journey ahead, there's no rush. And it's cool that your family's supporting you mentally and financially too, that can really take some pressure off while you search.

Before you know it a good opportunity will land in your lap. Till then I'd say enjoy your free time, explore any interests you've got, and try to find ways to make small moves even if you don't know the big picture yet. But you're gonna crush it man, don't sweat it! Feel free to hit me up anytime if an extra "you got this!" helps out. Stay positive bro!

[herambvedpathak]

You really gave me positivity from. A virtual hug to you brother 🫂

[Oliverlogan263]

Man right back atcha brotha, virtual hug received! 🤗 It's what we're here for, building each other up.

This world can drag a guy down sometimes, but as long as we lift our brothers when they're down, that's what really matters. We're all in this together ya know?

Just keep walking tall my guy. Brighter days ahead for sure. You handle your business and I'm always here if an ear is needed, feel me? Now go share some of that positivity with your good fam too, I know it'll lift them up just the same!

Stay solid fam. Good talk, I'ma get back to livin now but you take care and holler anytime. Peace! 🖖🏾

[herambvedpathak]

Hey brother please help me with your Instagram name as I want to connect you for lifetime as my close friend over there

[CuriousHubby]

You live your life as someone little older! Nothing really matters but friends and family.

Nothing is permanent or lasting!

[herambvedpathak]

Yeah but what about the basic needs like money I have to do something about it.

[CuriousHubby]

Just do jobs that cover it. Look for higher ones if you can if not just work. It's what every one does. Dead end jobs for bills.
Not happy but you get to eat!