The owner of the company that I work at has offered to give me all of the raises and promotions I want if I become his mistress?

[SelinErdem]

he's even saying that he might eventually make me the CEO if i sleep with him and perform all other kinds of sexual favours whenever he wants. Should i go for it? Is it worth it?

[abc3643]

He's not going to give you shit. You'd want that in writing - that is, have a contract. Except that that sort of contract is illegal, so he won't ever sign one or even offer it.

Instead, what you need to do is consider looking for a new job. You COULD perhaps date the owner but be prepared that if it doesn't work out, then you have to move on. However, you said "mistress". Is he married? If so, just get out of this situation because no good will come from this ever.

[SelinErdem]

Yes, he's married

[SelinErdem]

How about if i sleep with him once and secretly record it? I could use that as blackmail so that he will give me whatever i want. He might even give me every single one of his companies and pay me a monthly allowance of a few million dollars

[abc3643]

NO GOOD WILL COME FROM ANY OF THIS.

Find a new job ASAP.
And stop being an idiot conniving bitch trying to manipulate situations. This is how people get killed - especially in countries where women are often second class citizens and/or Muslim countries. You're from Turkey where it's better than most other Muslim countries but, deep down, you know that Islam treats women differently than men and if you piss of a man in that culture, he may kill you and get away with it.

[SelinErdem]

How did you know i was from Turkey?

[abc3643]

Well, besides the fact the Girls Ask Guys was founded by Turkish immigrants to the US, your name appears Turkish. I've seen many Turkish names and they have some distinctive patterns to them. I was not 100% sure that you were Turkish, but I would have been willing to bet on it.

Anyway, welcome to Girls Ask Guys!

[SelinErdem]

Im ethnically turkish. But I live in the U. S. Im born and raised here

[abc3643]

Where in the US are you? The founders of GirlsAskGuys live in the Saint Louis Missouri area.

[bowenw]

I suggest you first find out what kinds of sexual favours he has in mind. Also, there is always going to be the risk that other employees will be jealous if they find out about it, if you care about that. Making a recording as insurance is a good plan if you can get away with it without him knowing. There is also the risk that he will may change his mind later and select another mistress.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Anonymous]

It's unlikely but it will make your working life easier. Enjoy being wined and dined. Guy I'm dating has put me up in an apartment rent free, takes me on fancy holidays, I'd helping me pay for college, buys me fancy clothes and lingerie. He's never going to leave his wife of course though he says he will. I like him but I'm using him for now. Eventually I will met a decent guy.

[AI Opinion]

It's crucial to maintain a professional boundary in the workplace. Engaging in such a relationship can lead to significant legal, ethical, and personal complications. This type of proposition is a form of workplace harassment and should be reported to HR or relevant authorities. Building your career on merit and skills is far more fulfilling and sustainable. Trust in your abilities and seek a work environment where you're valued for your contributions. Prioritizing integrity and self-respect will pave the way for genuine success in the long run.

[Rohaan2020]

If he actually gives it to you then i guess u should go for it

[Rohaan2020]

@selinerdem do u rlly wanna do it?

[SelinErdem]

didn't you just say i should go for it?

[Rohaan2020]

Ya that’s what i think…. But i was asking if u feel the same or not

[SelinErdem]

I do

[Rohaan2020]

Ok… all the best

[slatyb]

He won't keep that promise. Never date someone you are working for.

[SelinErdem]

He is litterally promising to pay my rent and my bills, give me a 5 million dollar monthly allowance, make me the CEO of 3 of his companies as well as giving me 25 percent of the shares of each of his companies. And he litterally owns over 50 highly successful companies. I mean isn't it worth the risk? I would be stupid not to take it.

[SelinErdem]

On top of that he will also shower me with gifts

[StevenMcGarrett]

Sounds good but keep in mind there is no guarantee and he will probably replace you quickly.