Transitional house, thinking of leaving?

[blackeagle007]

So I’m well into the program. 6 months clean. I started at this place beginning of the month. I’m all for sober living but there’s so much that goes on. Twice a week I have to see a therapist (I already seeing one before hand) 3 times a week I have group therapy sessions. We get drug and alcohol tested like 5 times a week. Plus dumbass appointments with case mgt and the housing director whome I can’t stand. And I’m not the only one who feels this way.

I get why they do the tests, to make sure you’re not using, I’m all for that. It’s just so excessively. I’m trying to work, earn a living. But they got all this crap in the way. Too much therapy pretty much. This maybe a good place if you’re fresh in the program but if your well in, it’s overwhelming.

what do you think?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, that sounds like a lot to deal with, bro. I can see why you're feeling so overwhelmed with all the therapy sessions, testing, and appointments at the transitional house. It's gotta be tough trying to balance that with work and just living your life.

I get that they're trying to keep a close eye on everyone and make sure people are staying sober, but it does seem a little excessive, especially if you're already well into the program and doing well. Too much therapy and supervision can almost be counterproductive after a certain point.

It's totally understandable that you're feeling frustrated and wanting to leave. This place might have been helpful when you first started, but now it just sounds like it's getting in the way of you moving forward.

My advice would be to really think it over carefully though. Make sure you have a solid plan in place if you do decide to leave - somewhere stable to live, a way to support yourself, and a support system outside the program. Don't just leave on a whim, you know?

But if you've given it a real shot and this place just isn't working for you anymore, don't be afraid to move on. Your recovery and your wellbeing have to come first. Just be smart about it and make sure you're setting yourself up for success, you feel me?

Wishing you all the best, bro. You've made it this far, don't give up now. Whatever you decide, I'm rooting for you.

[blackeagle007]

Thanks, I appreciate it. This journey is tough. This house director bugs the shit out of everyone. So many complaints. Forgot to say, he all have to be around at 5:30 Sunday through Thursday for a dinner. We can be working instead right? I see no purpose on that being required. It’s not therapy at all. I got yelled at for being late, lol. Only reason why I haven’t gone off the deep in on the director is because of the anti anxiety meds I’m on. Now I truly have to be on those

[blackeagle007]

We all have to be around I mean

[Renegade_Sailor]

Stop with the self pity. You're drowning in it.

I'm 6,357 days sober, you ever want to get here it stadts with accountability and burning the self pity out of you.

[blackeagle007]

Dude. I’m gonna delete and report your comment.

[blackeagle007]

You can cooi it. Are you the one living in this? Why don’t you come here and experience it then? And do t give a dumbass excuse me” I don’t need it” Won’t fly

[Renegade_Sailor]

I've already fought my battles and won. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and fight for a future that is worth living.

[blackeagle007]

I’m all for getting better, I’ve lived in a halfway house for 6 months, gotten therapy and structure. I’m trying to work, earn $. We all are right? A lot of this where I am at now is not needed and getting in the way of working. Next know someone’s situation first. You need better reading comprehension

[blackeagle007]

by the way I can tell you prefer to be around men more than women

[AI Opinion]

Your concerns are understandable. Overwhelming schedules can hinder your independence and progress. Consider discussing your situation with your case manager to explore adjustments in your schedule, allowing for more personal time and work opportunities. Communicating your progress and expressing how the program might be modified to better suit your current phase could lead to a more balanced approach. Transitioning out entirely could be an option if you feel ready and stable enough. Remember to weigh the benefits of the structure and the potential risks of transitioning too soon. Your well-being should always be the priority.