Am I slow or dumb?

Question

So in school I did get extra time for test and get broken up into smaller groups in my earlier years of school. I dint ride the short bus but still I don’t think stuff like getting some extra time made you dumb but slow in almost a literal sense.

But I think even for the quote on quote slow classes I was in I was advanced I remember and incident at the start of middle school or actually in my second year I was in all regular classes which was fine but my grades dropped dramatically I had a death in the family and put zero effort into my school work didn’t do anything of the work at all eventually the school counselor said they were moving me back into special classes but by this time I’d started doing my work again and my teachers even vouched for me that they started seeing improvement in class but I got moved anyway.

Anyway since graduating I haven’t used majority of the stuff I’d learned in school but I almost feel like not being in school has made me really dumb. I make simple mistakes that I shouldn’t be making over and over again and I know the people around me have to think I’m a little slow the new nice way of saying you are slow or dumb.

It’s honestly frustrating I want a way to help keep my mind sharp academically on my own time. Reading is one thing I plan to start doing is there anything else I can do?

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

There are apps that present games to help you with a variety of cognitive abilities.
Also, spend more time with people you think are faster or smarter with you. Preferably people with whom you share mutual respect. This will allow you to keep yourself on your toes without feeling judged as harshly.
Being slow is a good thing. It will make you a better listener. Too many “smart” people talk too much, too soon and listen too little, too late. You’ve got an edge. Make the most of it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Having a learning disability doesn't slow you down i have a reading and writing disability and also had 12 years of speech therapy I've had a job since I was 16 and work full time things can take me a bit longer but it def doesn't slow me down yiu just have to have the right mind set

Advisor Smith · Accepted Answer

You're not alone in feeling this way—it’s not uncommon to question one's abilities. You're neither slow nor dumb; you've experienced challenges that have impacted your confidence. To keep your mind sharp, consider diverse learning activities like picking up a new hobby, solving puzzles, or engaging in stimulating conversations. Writing, journaling, and lifelong learning through free online courses can also be beneficial. Remember, everyone learns at their own pace, and by taking deliberate steps, you can continue to grow and achieve your goals. Stay curious and patient with yourself, as growth is a lifelong journey.