Why my co-workers started to act differently when they heard I found new job?

[Anonymous]

I have been working as a nurse in hospital unit that treated mostly elderly people that had suffered stroke. I used to work in university hospital and I’m skillss nurse. I came to this unit because I needed a job that was less hectic and stressful since I was also studying on the side. I always knew I would be leaving soon when I would complete my studies.

after 1,5yrs I found a job that was more clean (office type) job and better hours. When my co-workers heard some of them started to make comments like ” at least you don’t have to do this anymore” or ” your new job will be different”. Their demeanor changed. They asked a lot of questions about my new job. They also were pissed that I didn’t tell them before I left my notice.

[AviatorTom]

They are probably jealous, not of your new jib, but that you had the guts to find something better, while they continue to put up with where they are.

[Asker]

The one’s that made snarky comments were old woman that were retairing soon. I would hate to be in my 60’s and do physically demanding job

[exitseven]

Some are jealous and some are just jerks. You looked out for yourself. You made a plan and you followed it to it's conclusion. You should be proud of yourself.

[Asker]

The one’s that made snarky comments were old woman that were retairing soon. I would hate to be in my 60’s and do physically demanding job

[exitseven]

Yes, me too.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

In workplace dynamics, change can stir a range of emotions. Your departure represents change, leading to curiosity and potential insecurity among co-workers. They might feel left behind or worried about increased workload. The comments reflect mixed feelings—some envy, some admiration. Transparency is key; a proactive conversation about your decision might ease tensions. Share your gratitude for their support, and focus on maintaining positive relationships. Remember, change is challenging for everyone, not just those leaving.

[Sam1133]

They are happy for your new job

[Asker]

Then why make the snarky comments?

[Sam1133]

Cutie where is snarky comments?

[Asker]

at least you don’t have to help patients shower ” or ” your new job will be different (no changing dispers”.

[Sam1133]

They are happy that now you don't have to do this...

Are you seriously adult?

[Asker]

But their faces looked like that deep down they’re bit happy for me

[Anonymous]

Maybe they were envious.

[Asker]

I don’t understand. Why be envious? They could look for a new job if they wanted to

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe they are too lazy to look for a new job.