Would this be a turnoff?

[Anonymous]

Would it be a turnoff if your boyfriend and you work in the same company but he is not assistant manager and soon to be manager but you are still a regular associate and don't want to move on because you are happy where you are and don't want to be assistant manager and deal with the work load. Guys would it be a turn off if your girl wants to stay where she is at?

Updates

10 mo

if he is now assistant manager*** and soon to be manager I meant

[Anonymous]

A guy who genuinely cares about you wouldn't be turned off by your career choices. The right person will respect that you've found a job that makes you happy, regardless of the title or salary. Happiness and work-life balance are incredibly important, and a supportive partner will understand that your well-being matters more than climbing the corporate ladder. It's not a competition; it's about two people building a life together, and that includes respecting each other's paths and goals.

[Asker]

love this thank you!!

[RedInnocent69]

If she worked for me, no (but that would be a big no no to begin with). If she didn’t, I would hope she’d be a bit ambitious and would do anything I could to support her

[RedInnocent69]

Hop on that gravy train before someone else does!

[Anonymous]

So what, do you take the position just because you don’t want to turn him off? Do you have dinner on the table by 6 as well?

[AI Opinion]

Your contentment with your position should be valued, and a supportive partner will respect your choice to remain where you're happy. Career aspirations vary, and it's important to find fulfillment in your own path. As an advisor, I've seen successful relationships where partners grow on different career trajectories. Open communication about your intentions and support for each other's decisions can strengthen the relationship, as mutual respect and understanding are key.

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t shit where I eat

[Ariesman81]

Hell no. Quit your job!

[Anonymous]

No, it's not a turn off for me.