What to do when you realize high school was your best moments?

[MusicTokuXX]

What to do when you realize high school was your best moments? Your peak. The only time where you’ll feel important. Because that’s how i feel. I feel worthless as an adult. My best moments and peak was in high school

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You’re 26, you haven’t been alive long enough for your second peak yet

[MusicTokuXX]

No? What’s a second peak?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You get more than one peak, my man

[MusicTokuXX]

Not really? When do you get your 2nd peak? How old are you to be able to say that?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I haven’t gotten there yet, but I know it’s coming. You’re 26 and presumably the last 22-someodd years of your life have been spent in academia. You’re still adjusting to the new lifestyle that exists without those rigid structures, you’re overwhelmed with the freedom of choice and craving some kind of direction, right? Once you learn to adjust and start taking steps towards the direction you want, you’ll reach that peak

[MusicTokuXX]

? Last 22 years? So when i was 4? Wdym academia?

[MusicTokuXX]

Many of my friends are getting engaged and married and having a happy stable life

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Academia is another word for school, and I’m presuming you went to university directly after high school, hence 22

[MusicTokuXX]

I never went to university/college.

[MusicTokuXX]

And again Many of my friends are getting engaged and married and having a happy stable life. I don’t have anyone. I’m chronically ill and suffering alone

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So just because you’re not married, you can’t be happy? You’re disabled, if you’re going to hate yourself for things you can’t change then I can’t help you

[MusicTokuXX]

What else would i do? What else can i do?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I can’t make you unlearn the idea that you can’t be happy alone, that’s something you have to do on your own time

[MusicTokuXX]

How can you possibly be happy alone? Why would you want to be alone anyway? Why do people try to convince you, you don’t need love?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Like I said, I can’t do anything for you

[MusicTokuXX]

What is wrong with you

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You’ve set your boundaries, I know my limits. I can’t help someone who doesn’t want help

[MusicTokuXX]

I am tired of life! You don’t understand! I wouldn’t want help that won’t help me

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You don’t want any help

[MusicTokuXX]

there's NO HELP!! WHY DO YOU THINK there's HELP OUT THERE?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because I’ve seen it, I’ve used it. And I can tell you’re getting tired of this argument so I’ll stop here

[MusicTokuXX]

You aren’t going through the same things i am tho! you aren’t experiencing the same things i am!! YOU DONT UNDERSTAND

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

This is what I meant by being so in your own head, you don’t notice

[MusicTokuXX]

Wdym i don’t notice? Notice what?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s been 3 days, we’re both tired of this. DM me if you want to keep talking

[MusicTokuXX]

You don’t understand that’s why! You’re trying to convince me that my problems aren’t any different than others! That’s simply not true! In my position my problems are worse

[JuliusCaesarr]

A total of two years of high school coincided with the coronavirus pandemic. I also prepared for the university entrance exam in my final year. It was terrible for me.

[MusicTokuXX]

Ok? How does that relate to my post?

[JuliusCaesarr]

Sorry, maybe I misunderstood the question.

[DryGermanGuy]

Yeah, that or for me more the roaring twenties. But what can you do. The wheel of history rolls forward only. 😕

[AI Opinion]

Realizing that high school was a special time can be challenging, but it’s important to remember that life offers many opportunities for growth and fulfillment beyond those years. Focus on discovering new passions, setting achievable goals, and building a supportive community around you. Embrace lifelong learning and consider exploring new career paths or hobbies that ignite excitement. Finding value and purpose in different areas of your life will help shift your perspective, allowing you to appreciate new experiences and feeling important in various ways. Everyone has unique life stages and peaks, so keep striving for personal growth.

[beenherebefore]

Grow up and make new memories.

[MusicTokuXX]

That’s impossible in my situation

[AviatorTom]

Simple... Create a new best moment

[Anonymous]

When I started working.