Why is this coworker trying to act like his a boss to me?

[Anonymous]

[DryGermanGuy]

Probably none of the older colleagues take him seriously, so he tries the boss act with you.

[Asker]

Yea I don't know but he only greeted me and didn’t say anything to the other woman

[DryGermanGuy]

He is trying to make you his "little project", without any mandate, of course.

[Staximus]

Tell the real boss so they can straighten his nose out

[Asker]

I mean, I’m not saying like he’s like bossing me around all the time but we be like remember we talked about having a good attitude the other day and just stuff like that like bro why do you care?

[AI Opinion]

It can be challenging when a coworker acts like a boss. This behavior might stem from their desire for control, insecurity, or misunderstanding of roles. Communicate openly and set boundaries. An assertive but respectful conversation can help clarify roles and expectations. Share your concerns with your actual supervisor if necessary. Remember, fostering a collaborative and respectful work environment benefits everyone involved.

[Asker]

He used to be a supervisor a while back

[HollyK21]

How so?

[Asker]

Just by his tone and everything, like the other day he was like remember we already talked about you having a positive attitude not that I’m overthere cursing and all just not all excited maybe but he makes it sound like I’m supposed to be all cheerful