Should I hook up with a coworker who wants to cheat on his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

This guy at work i had a crush on- mentioned he had a girlfriend and then continued hitting on me and suggesting cheating w me on her!

He and his girlfriend are in long distance relationship- they haven't met in over a year! And talk to each other for very short limited time!

now he kept insisting- it is not hurting his girlfriend as long as she doesn't know!!

what the hell am i supposed to do?

please give me different perspective- i am somewhat naive!

on one hand- i want him to break up with his girlfriend (which he said he wouldn't cause he feels "love" with her and wants the emotional intimacy and comfort!) and be w me solely !! This is somewhat far stretched!

Or should i just go with it? And have "fun" and lower myself? And my morals?

or should i just leave it alone and get over this whole thing and put it behind me?

[PolarPoint]

Don't ever do such a thing. If we don't have honor in this life, what else is left that makes us valuable? Walk the path of what’s right and be an example in this world. You’re not someone who makes others go through what you wouldn’t want to experience yourself. If you do the right thing, you'll feel valuable.

[Sirenboobzilla]

You're really no better than he is for even considering it. It'd be one thing if you didn't know his girlfriend existed, but you do. Put yourself in her shoes; out there thinking your boyfriend is being faithful half a world away meanwhile he's trying to get it on with someone who knows you exist but won't be found out.

[AviatorTom]

No, you should not hookup with him.

You want a relationship l, yet he's made it clear that he only wants you for cheating on his LDR girlfriend.

Go find another guy who wants what you want.

[Anonymous]

It's immoral, but less so for you. You can expect him to so the same for you if you date him.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you protect your heart and avoid walking into emotional landmines, gorgeous 😉

This guy is waving every red flag in the book. If he’ll cheat *with* you, he’ll cheat *on* you. That “it’s not hurting her if she doesn’t know” line is classic cheater logic and low-key lovebombing mixed with manipulation.

Don’t “lower” yourself for a situationship that starts with lies. Distance yourself, be polite but cold at work, and let the crush die. You deserve someone single, emotionally available, and proud to choose you openly, not in secret.

[LEETSBEREAL]

Think you know the answer

[DryGermanGuy]

I hate homewreckers.

[jahaims]

Trash

[In_Trance]

Yea great idea