Do you think I did my friend dirty in this video by getting him to take up this challenge?

[t-8900]

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PS: This was like 10 years ago. I assure you I'm a reformed man! LOL

[DizzyDesii]

Okay your friend is fine af. But maybe i just have a weakness for buzzcuts 😂 The way he does the eyebrows omg he reminds me of John Travolta in Grease haha. But anyways, back on topic, that was amazing how he ate those without hardly breaking a sweat. And you claim you do too? I like spicy foods but not like that haha

[t-8900]

Yep I'm keeping the buzzcut not too. Too many girls telling me the love it that way to grow it out anymore haha. He definitely had the girls chasing tf out of him back then. Yeah we do spicy like that sometimes. Good for the blood which is good for... other things!

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii girl😂 right!! You like white boys too?

[Uptowngirl88]

Welcome to the club sis😂

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 i like some of everything. Im always down for Black men but my boo is not black and i could care less. He makes me happy regardless of his skintone

[t-8900]

both of you would have liked hanging around me maybe. lot of Italian boys and a random pole, mexican, and irish guys all added in with us for some flavor XD

[DizzyDesii]

I've dated an Italian and a Mexican before. Like i said, i dont pay attention to all of that. If a dude is cute, he's cute no matter what he is

[t-8900]

thats true enough. But we all sported those buzzcuts you love so much! XD

[DizzyDesii]

Lol so did all my exes 🤣

[t-8900]

thats too funny! I only knew of like 2 girls ever who got upset when I shaved my hair but otherwise all the girls said buzzcut! I said cool cuz that's easy to maintain and I can do it myself for free lol

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii wait wtf ✋🏾!! When did you get a boo? And why you ain't tell us gag people? I gave up black men 🤦🏾‍♀️. The ones here have turned me off completely. I have never been so turned off by black men in my life until I moved here.

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 damn i only visited Charlotte for a weekend but i liked what i saw. They were hella cute and respectful haha. And i seen a lot of black dudes with green eyes

[t-8900]

@Uptowngirl88 wait where did you move that made your view change so much? Just curious.

[Uptowngirl88]

@t-8900 I'm from a beach town in cali. Nothing but surfers and skaters so that's pretty much been my taste of men. Also had a large military men to where I dated black carribean men which was a nice experience compared to black American men. But Italian guys, I used to be in love with "the gotti boys" . @DizzyDesii girl do you remember the "gotti boys?😂😂

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 oh i thought u was in a diff state but nah I don't know the gotti boys. I googled em. They too metro for me but his friend looked more masculine lmao. Them gottis look fresh outta jersey shore haha

[t-8900]

@Uptowngirl88 OH NOOOOO not those types of Italians! XD

[Uptowngirl88]

@t-8900 I grew up in what was a predominantly white neighborhood. White men were just overall nicer, encouraged me to further my education and actually took the time out to help me. The best experiences with black men I've had were either non American black men or were half white/black. As far as black American men outside of my family gave come across as insecure, volatile, entitled, dangerous, rude, and aggressive. Non American black men are well mannered like Africans, Haitians, Jamaicans etc. Latino men are sweet too. But black American? Nooooo never again

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 you better go to the south where there's southern hospitality. there's some good eggs and bad eggs out there. Nothing will ever turn me against my own. Just take away the black card of the bad eggs as if we dont claim them and keep moving forward 🤣

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii I'm in NC now. But I'm originally from a beach town in cali on the marina. Girl nothing but some fine ass surfer. And I mean the Paul walker looking types

[t-8900]

I told my dad within the next year or two my ass is moving south. So many nice folks I've met on gag and irl from the south are just better and more welcoming people. Many more homebodies and much more family oriented... which is what I'm looking for for obvious reasons!

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 not Paul walker! Dont get me started 😭 and yes i’ve talked to some surfer dudes. Thats why i made thwt post a while back about falling for the surfer boy bullshit. They such smooth talkers good lord. I stay away from them types now haha

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii I'm in the south but I must warn you NC specifically charlotte is not longer the south. It is very city like. a lot of new Yorkers here. Now as far as Atlanta the black men are generous yet married or have a boyfriend on the side🤦🏾‍♀️😂. But over all generous because they're wealthy. No black American men for me. Now carribean and African black are a lot better from my experience. Again black American men are a no go for me

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii and when I say generous the men will spend money on you for the day. This is Buckhead specifically

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 yea them atlanta dudes look like what i like (pretty boy types) but too many are closeted. So i’ll happily pass. Im pretty content with what im working with with my boo. But yea in general, i like em all

[t-8900]

@Uptowngirl88 @DizzyDesii damn it both of you are inadvertently making me want to go do crunches again while i'm losing this weight!!! ugh 3 lbs a week isn't enough! MUST GET DRAGO BOD NOOOWWWW!!!



and then tell future wife this: tenor.com/.../break-i-must-break-you-rocky-dolph-lundgren-boxing-gif-5701791

in the bedroom! X3

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii it's a lot more open in cali too a lot of interracial relationships but honey the black American men talk so bad about black women. That's why I don't deal with them. The first thing they'd ask me," are you mixed?" I like mixed like skin girls you look mixed I'm like no dude. But a lot of the black men's mentality is like that in cali. A perfect example is rapper too short. I don't know if you seen his video when he was talking shit. And saweetie was like huh? Wtf you can tell she was uncomfortable

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 too short always been disrespectful af. But i still dance to his music lmao. And I don't know these days you gotta get a mama’s boy black boy to get respect. A lot are raised by others in the family and dont know any better. I ain't making excuses for them though. I just dont date the types anymore who have no hometraining. So you can find good black men if you really want to. But i think you’re better off with whatever is luring you. Ima gravitate to whoever im into no matter the color

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii I agree it's the upbringing. that's the thing black men these days are so.. I don't know nothing like grandfather. My grandfather was a gentleman.

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 shit my grandpa ain't no gentleman 🤣 and he was 1 of 9 kids raised by 2 parents lol. I mean he a gentleman to everyone but his wife. Ion like that

[t-8900]

@DizzyDesii "he a gentleman to everyone but his wife"

LOL savage af!

[Uptowngirl88]

@dizzydesi really? Aww no,, what about your uncles? My grandpa literally took care of my grandmother and her entire family. Raised the grand children when their fathers didn't step up. Paid my way through college with cash girl. He paid what my loans didn't cover. I have not yet met a man like him. Retired police chief and army. He was a man's man girl. all these dudes today wanna be women.

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 oh no my grandpa is a mans man but he talks down to his wife and i dont respect that. His brothers are all opposite. All their women talk down to them. One of their wives is cheating with a woman and it hurts him daily but he keeps taking her back. The other ones wife is cheating with a man but i think my unc is cheating too but only to make himself feel better

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii how do you feel about that? Does it interfere with your relationship towards him and views on black men? Or is this a separate issue to you?

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii my step-dad was amazing. Black-Jamaican put me in sports, attended every game, took care of me and my family, pushed me to pursue a higher education. My real dad black American 🤦🏾‍♀️🤡

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 its not even a race thing tho. I've seen men of all colors act this way so it doesn't even fit into a stereotype. But i think it makes them all look weak (outside of race). My grandpa looks weak for talking down to his wife. And My unc looks weak for this cuckshit

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii the mindset of black American men is very different. The talk shit about black women so badly. They ask, "what do they bring to the table", they complain about black women's hair, they complain about black women who are dark skinned, a lot of them are raised in a one parent home which is usually the mom doing the raising, they don't support black women yet black woman marched for them during times of police brutality. I dont know if you're on Facebook or not but even there you'll see them post some bold shit. Talking about 50/50 like bruh you're supposed to be a man get a fuckin higher paying job. 50/50 my ass it will never be 50/50 when it comes to a relationship with a man because a woman will always be doing 90%. So they expect you to make a baby, care for the baby, cook, clean, cater to them, and work full time? I'm like n**ga bye

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii date an African or carribean man. I'm telling you, you'll see the difference in them vs black American men. African and carribean men are taught to be providers , bread winners, head of house hold. Black American men are very feminized

[t-8900]

@Uptowngirl88 honestly its not just black men and it's not just men. Everything is just so messed up in this country. we got white men/women turning on each other and black men/women turning on each other. Its all apart of the design to just mess up everything. I'm all for people being able to date outside their race and it's totally fine. But not because of infighting. It should be because of a genuine love and care for whatever individual you end up with. It should supersede all things. Height, weight, finances, education, honestly if you give yourself and others a chance you might fall for someone you weren't expecting to. That happened with me back in college one time. I dropped all the preconceived notions, expectations, and the physical standards I had before. Honestly it kind of helped propel me to being open to dating outside my race and it helped me see a more REALY side to just love in general. I fell in love with a black girl once before truthfully.

There was a stigma where I grew up but honestly her just showing me affection made me realize how much BS and stock we put in skin color. It shouldn't matter one bit. My grandfather was an excellent role model, WW2 veteran. He served in the Axis powers but hated them. He actually helped apprehend Mussolini in the Alps actually along with some cousins and the Partisans. He always told me to cherish love and just go with a girl that treated me right. didn't matter her skin color, culture, etc. Just as long as she was as true to me as I was to her. Racism is pushed so hard in this country and it's absolute bullshit and the sword cuts both ways teaching us to hate others as well as ourselves. It's not the way to lead your life. There is a better way. I hope you find someone who treats you good for who you are, not what you are. Sending you well wishes.

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 like i said, youve just experienxed the bad as well as social media. That is the worst example you could allow to set you off. I dont do social media. I focus on the black dudes i know forreal. Everyone can't be categorized into one big corner. It just dont work like that. I know too many good and bad. And you keep pushing these African and carribean. I have dated 2 Africans who had that woman beating vibe and one carribean who sounded high half the time. Im not stereotyping because inknow some good ones who i did not date. But my point is that there are good and bad apples in every bunch. Like i said, you go for whatever works for you. But i know what i like

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii Facebook is not fake gag or Instagram social media these are real regular everyday people. See what I'm saying that's your view on carribean and African. How is that any different than my views on black American men? You've mentioned in your post before men who've tried to use you for sex and have wasted your time. They were black American. So if that works for you I u cool beans but I'm not settling for that. As far as my experience I've never been abused or nothing like that by black American men. Like I've said they don't make them like my grandfather in my eyes. That has nothing to do with experience it's just what I've seen from the way they dress, level of education, income, and statistics

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii I don't add anyone on Facebook that I don't know.

[DizzyDesii]

@Uptowngirl88 the African and carribean dudes i dated were not from GaG. One was from Atlanta of course. And the dude im referring to that used me for sex was black yes. The second did not use me for sex but he was black/latino. I didn't have sex with my other exes but the others were mainly white and Asian. So im speakinf from experience when i say a lot of dudes act alike no mateter their skin color. And as i said, their actions will not turn me against a whole nation of men. Im gonna still mainly go for American men when called for despite my current not originating from here. You date whatever makes you happy but the African/carribean are not much different is all im saying

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

How is your friend doing today? Asking for myself 😂😂😂

[t-8900]

after he woke up the next morning he was hitting the toilet on and off non-stop for 5 hours but he made a full recover haha

[DonkeyDan]

No, he's a big boy and knew what he was getting himself into, he took it like a champ, I would have been on the floor after the first 2 or 3 lol

[Phoenix98]

Shame he didn’t know there’s a certain way to eat peppers that eliminates most of the hotness.

[CrazyGirl2]

Yes, just a bit! It never fails to amaze me the stupid things guy’s do to impress each other! LOL 😂

[t-8900]

"manly men!" lol I don't know why those guys looked up to me so much. Was it because I was the biggest guy in the room? or maybe because I had 3-4 years on them? XD

[CrazyGirl2]

I have NO idea how guys think!

[t-8900]

we are ego driven almost to a fault lol. Dominance is a big thing. Always getting the one up pretty much no matter what. Until you are old enough to realize how self destructive it is to live that way.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well… There you go, I think you answered your own question.

[Funnygirl1500]

Maybe you could give me your friends number and can check in and make sure he's ok. ;)

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

That's what I'm saying!

[Funnygirl1500]

@ShaTTeredMasterpeace maybe you and I could both go check on him at the same time. ;)

[cookiecrusher]

I'm sure he would enjoy this type of spice in his life.

[St37xy11]

I don't mind watching an attractive man 😊 and I think he handled it really well.

[loves2learn]

Bet he shit fire the next day! 😳

[t-8900]

he most certainly did LOL

[Uptowngirl88]

No , it was well deserved 🤣😂

[t-8900]

what makes you say that? XD

[Uptowngirl88]

He accepted the challenge 🤷🏾‍♀️

[t-8900]

true, true. he opened his mouth about hot peppers not affecting him. I said OH REALLY?

[RobT312]

Naw... I would have tried too

[TrueConfection]

No, he was a great sport!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Is that raw pepper or cooked?

[t-8900]

raw, sun dried

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Could you handle it or not? He took it well.

[t-8900]

yeah actually. Those were my grandpas. I was raised on that stuff young. Some Italians are raised on hot peppers like that. Very big for the spicey sausages. The stuff you get in the states is a mockery. You ain't never had Italian sausages unless they were rolled out at home on the table! We would eat this just like that with a bowl of fried smelts and cocktail sauce. Good eats!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I love spicy food.

[t-8900]

its a must in this house. Even when its hot sauce i prefer Hot. I like Marie Sharp's. That's like my favorite. The habenero ones are the best tasting.

[CandaceSims201]

Don't care

[msc545]

TL:DW sorry