Is liking anime and playing videogames a turn off?

[Jeremy123g]

I love videogames and manga and anime but i work like 24/7 and can still provide for myself but i heard it might be a turnoff

[WonderBell99]

No, that in itself is not a turn off for me. Since when was it illegal for people to have their own hobbies?

My ex was an avid gamer. Our relationship ended partly because he was gaming 24/7 even when I wanted to spend some quality time with him together.. we weren’t able to spend much time together because of school/assignments and stuff, but whenever we were together, he used to play video games, when we were on a video call, video games.. I was frustrated! My love language is spending quality time and bonding together. If the guy is not ready to share at least a few minutes of his day with me, what’s the point of being in a relationship?

[Yucy_Gluttony]

It's a hobby. Why would it be a turn off to watch anime but not when you watch TV? it's STUPID! I would gladly have you lay on my lap and watch it together with you! <3 I have only occupied myself with youtube and video games, but anime is so beautiful, it's a shame not to watch it!
IN FACT what anime is that picture from?

[Jeremy123g]

I don't know first result of google XD

[Yucy_Gluttony]

You teased me! ;-;

[Jeremy123g]

Im sorry

[Yucy_Gluttony]

If you're sorry, recommend me an anime that you really liked?

[Jeremy123g]

Stop bullying me ma nagatoro
My dressup darling
Death note
Tokyo ghoul
Berserk
The future diary
Lupin the third

[Yucy_Gluttony]

OOOO thank you!

[Ghen30]

Hell no!
It's awesome! I personally love anime, manga, Asian dramas, you name it! And if my future boyfriend was into it, we'd definitely have a lot of fun! Also, I love video games and can be a little competitive. I love Nintendo games, but I'm always up for pvp games online too or on Playstation. :D

[Little_Bumblebee]

Maybe for some. You cannot please everybody.

Personally, no it's not a turn-off, as long as you can still keep your life up and the games won't take over your life or be more important than your partner.
And as long you're not an extreme otaku.

Find your pleasures in life, be true to yourself, that way it's easier to find someone who's right for you and will be into you for who you truly are.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Only if it's the only thing you do and you have no other hobbies, skills, or abilities.

Your work schedule is probably more of an issue than your anime and vidya habits. If you're never around, it's hard to have a relationship.

[Jeremy123g]

Oh😯 intresting

[Smoke-n-Growls]

There's no rush to get into a relationship, too. If work, anime, and vidya are your priorities right now, that's totally good.

Do you, don't let societal expectation force you to be someone you're not.

When life gets better and you've got a job that lets you have more time, you can reassess. But if anime and vidya get you through your 24/7 work, then just keep going.

I've had a few months like that myself.

[angeliquedevereux2]

I do both so definitely not, it would mean we have some things in common- but if they are very unmotivated and overindulge in these activities to the point of being jobless then yeah, that's a turn off

[Emogirl999]

To some it might be, but most people I know, including myself like anime and video games. My boyfriend and love to watch anime and play video games together, it's something we both really enjoy.

[dustybiker]

You’re 18. It’s okay to like those things. Sounds like your head is on straight. 😎

[yourmancallsme]

TURN ON
It’s so rare to find boys who like anime and majority of boys play video games and so do I

[skyeee_]

as long as they're not cringe or toxic, which lots of weebs online are

[kuladiamond]

No videogames are a hobby its normal

[kuladiamond]

Also anime is much better than tv or movies right now XD

[Jeremy123g]

Damn straight

[Dnice1]

Nope it's a huge plus