Do you listen to both sides of the story?

[Anonymous]

Be honest, When there's any form of situation that involves two people, do you listen to both stories? There's indeed always two perspectives and two sides to any story, do you consider ever listening to the other? 🤔

[12karen]

Always it's essential

And not only both sides of the story but from their friend's perspective.

Like what kind of person they are, what they said to their friends first or what did the friends witness...

Then you can see who's lying and bla bla

[Asker]

So you really them completely by just hearing their side? 😂

[12karen]

Yes.

[MemeSupreme]

sometimes like

1. which side is juicier 😏 bc if one side is then i might talk about that instead

2. how serious are the claims and who do i trust

3. do i care about both people (not just one) staying friends with me

[Asker]

So you do all your momoness calculations before choosing a side is what you are saying, it's got nothing to do with who's right? 😂

[MemeSupreme]

well DEPENDS WHAT IT IS

like i'll side with my friend or whoever i trust most unless what they say sounds fishy. if its drama about people I don't know and if it's not serious then im goin with whatever is the most interesting lol

[Asker]

Lol well sounds like the most common way to deal with the situation ha

[slatyb]

I've never been on both sides of a personal disagreement. In matters of fact, I pay attention to the data. The opinion of one guy who watched a YouTube video is not equal to the opinion of someone who has spent a lifetime studying something.

[Asker]

That's also a good point 🤔

[Lliam]

If they are friends and I have access to both sides, absolutely. I learned that a long time ago. And I try to remain neutral unless abuse is taking place.

[Asker]

What if you are one of the two? 🤔

[midnightmoon05]

Most pint fingers at the other…
Reality is… it takes two… so it takes a very mature one to accept the responsibilities how things ended up to current…
No one outside truly knows the details

[Lliam]

@midnightmoon05. Exactly. They shouldn't be triangulating and trying to get people to choose sides.

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely! Listening to both sides of a story is crucial. Everyone has their own perspective and understanding the whole picture helps in forming a fair opinion. Different viewpoints can provide insights you might not have considered otherwise, and fostering empathy and understanding can lead to better resolutions. 🌟

[DryGermanGuy]

If the story doesn't involve me, my work or my family I don't want to hear any side of the story.

[Asker]

That's a good point 😂

[exitseven]

me too.

[valentina4eva]

i always try to!!🤔 im a very empathetic person so it’s usually really straight forward for me to see other ppls point of view and consider other ppls feelings😊🤔

[Asker]

That's good, this is why being a giant barbie is better than being any other barbie, giant barbie has a soul 🤣

[valentina4eva]

lolol i def prefer being a barbie with soul!!😂😋😋

[Asker]

The one and only queen barbie 😂

[valentina4eva]

👸🏻👸🏻😋

[midnightmoon05]

I would rather listen to both sides.
here… those who post…we only read one side…. mostly I responded by … I would love to hear from the other person…. Then they don’t like it. Go figures.!

[Asker]

Yep that's true, I actually didn't think of that, how all the questions here are normally one sided 🤔

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

While I'm aware that there is another side sporting another perspective, it's super rare for me to have access to the other side at all

[Asker]

That's a good point indeed

[Miah06]

If it's possible to get both sides yes.

But i ain't hear to judge anyone.

But if you ask my opinion i will give it to you. And no i do not sugarcoat it

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[Miah06]

Yup.

[Dongie]

Yep! I've learned many years past that no matter the situation there is always a different perspective.

[Asker]

Very wise words indeed

[Dongie]

Thank you, Squire.

[LiaRaven]

If I can do that I'll do it for sure because it's very important to do so

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[sirderpsalot123]

If it's two people that I'm close with I'll usually tell them to leave me out of it

[Asker]

That's another good point lol

[NathanDavis]

yes, I do... and sometimes threes three or more sides, lol

[CubaPirate]

I do my best to tbh

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's a decent and fair thing to do.

[Graptemys79]

I try to, yes.