Why did you really join this app—support, growth, or just to judge others?

[brezzybaby]

I am asking because I made a few profiles and have different names or pics but im the same person and everything I have posted I have been told I was lying or that im the opposite sex of what I really am because I don't kno a few things I guess I should at my age... so I wanna kno what made you look and download this app, just to humiliate people or to actually try to help yourself or your partner (s) what was it?

[Anonymous]

I came here years ago to ask a specific question about women. Foolish me thinking i'd get an honest answer.😆 i figured we're all strangers, there's no reason not to answer honestly. But i didn't know at that point yet how toxic this site was. The funny part is i asked as a 17 year old because i didn't want to get a age bias answer. And a woman told me my question reflected my age. Like she was saying i should know better at 17.😆 i was like "wow".

It was after this that i learned most of the women on this site are, sorry to be crass "c*m rags" (whether it's intentional or by poor choices). And most of the guys are overlooked. Basically the worst parts of both genders. Most of the guys just lack confidence. And most of the women just lack common sense and or common decency.

I try to help who i'm able. That's all you can do. A person either wants to better themselves or they don't. And if they don't you just have to say🤷‍♂️ and walk away.

But this site IS helpful. Just not in the way it was designed to be. It just teaches you what to stay away from.

I don't troll. I hold a mirror up to peoples faces and some people just don't like what they see is all. But if a person can't even look at who or what they are, how can they improve or change? And if a person really doesn't want that advice for whatever reason, they're free to block me.👍

I would NEVER intentionally humiliate anyone. Life is hard enough without someone actively making it harder. But there are a lot of people on this site that are on self destructive paths. They don't want help. They want to know how to bend reality. I'm help, not a magician. I tell a lot of women they have a relationship built on a crooked foundation (because it's a VERY common tale here). Nothing you build will be straight if the foundation is crooked. Sometimes it's him, sometimes it's her, sometimes neither of them should be with anyone. But a successful relationship needs a solid foundation.

[TonyMetal___86]

If you have been here for a long time since you're saying you had accounta before this one than you know who i am 😏

[Simslover92]

At first, it was to chat with people anonymously but when I saw that this app could actually help me with my issues with the questions I ask and vice versa where I help others with the questions I answer, it became about that more. But sometimes it's truly to make the time go by fast.

[Calyptomaniac]

Boredom at work mostly. Great if anyone finds any of my answers helpful though it probably doesn't happen often. Most people aren't asking questions because they actually need to, they do it just because. If I really NEEDED answers, I hope I'm not coming here for the answers lol

[WhitneySnow]

To answer questions and give advice. Actually, when I first joined I was only sixteen and I wanted to learn and get advice from more experienced people. But as I got older and more mature I stuck around because I like giving advice and helping people.

[Nikki1989]

It was really just a way of killing time. Many of the friends I did have on here all slowly quit the website.

[lilBigPotato]

It's just another way to kill boredom for me.

[DryGermanGuy]

To deliver the German perspective ™. 🙂

[NovaSpawn]

Support certainly. Friendship as well.

[brezzybaby]

Well good to kno I posted something and was told I was a man a troll and lying

[NovaSpawn]

I'm sorry 🙁

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