Do all guys fantasize about their girlfriend's hot friends?

[Anonymous]

Wondering if it's only natural for guys to have sexual thoughts about their girlfriend's good-looking friends. Is it harmless?

[ArtistBboy]

Personally, I find that disgusting - emotionally cheating is the same as physically cheating. If the guy isn't happy he should move on.

The truthful and painful honesty is this:

- Men are visually attracted to women that are "good-looking" just like women are. In any relationship, even the most secure relationship, you will find a time that your man (or woman) looks at another individual. ** This doesn't mean it's okay to think about them sexually. If you aren't fully satisfied in the relationship, it's time to end it. I wouldn't recommend dating their friend, because you will find out how vicious the other person can be - but it wouldn't hurt to move on, especially to someone more fulfilling. **

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

[Littletad]

I only had one small moment where I noticed one of my ex's had a really attractive friend. But I didn't stare, just noticed for the moment and that was the end of it. I stay pretty loyal and don't wander off when I'm with someone. I know it sounds all cheesy, but that's just how I am.

[Anonymous]

Honestly? My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me with my best friend and it was the most horrible experience of my life. She was an attractive girl... just like me.. but I really didn't think he looked at her in that way. Because of this experience, among others I've had with men, I wouldn't put it past them if they had dirty thoughts like this about their girlfriends friends or even family members for that matter. It's really disgusting and I'm sure if I was in a guys head for a day, I'd never be able to trust a man. Thinking is not the same as doing, that is true... but I believe when you think about things like that.. it opens up doors to it more so than if you kept your mind clear from things like that.

[DrJones]

I've done that. Nothing serious, though, just idle fantasies. I often find that I like half-baked dreams of sleeping with my gf's hot friends even (especially?) if there's no chance in hell it would happen.

I think it's harmless if he's got some self-control and is reasonably well-connected to reality. Haven't you ever fantasized about someone you had no intention of actually sleeping with?

Now, if he gets obsessed or starts acting out the fantasies, that's a different story.

[InquisitiveMale]

Yes and no. I sometimes look at some of my girlfriend’s friends and notice her ass when in a tight pair of jeans and such but I don't fantasize about performing sexual acts with them and I dam well make sure I don’t go out of my way to look. If they do something right in front of me I’m still a guy, I have allot of self restraint, but I have my limitations. It's harmless and not intentional.

MY opinion, not yours.

Cheers.

[Anonymous]

I do. All the time my wife has a hot best friend and she comes over all the time with short shorts or short skirtz sometimes gym shorts (really tight) and she will take off her shoes in the house and has gorgeous legs and a nice ass and i fantasize about her all the time it drives me insans seeing her legs all the way to her feet just there on the couch talking to my wife. I've had sex with my wife immediately after her friend leaves because seeing her on my couch like that turns me on so bad. Is it bad? I dont know and i dont really care.

[Anonymous]

I check them out, and wonder what they look like naked.. (if they shave and stuff, etc)