It's fairly pointless if you're a female... that's why all the guys are responding how they are.
Female friends generally take and never give. They use you for support and entertainment and rarely provide support to you in return, and when you have an argument with them they throw things you've trusted them with back in your face like they've been negatively judging you all the time you've been friends. If you're not the one who is doing this type of stuff, then you're not going to get much out of friendship. There are also a lot of frenemies out there, like they pretend to be your friend but they talk about you behind your back or try to undermine you. And when your female friends get a boyfriend or get married, you can completely forget about them because they basically stop contacting you.
I like to hang with guys, but the thing is you can't get too close with guys or else they will probably either start liking you or try to have sex with you at some point. And guy-girl friendships don't usually involve support, and if they do it's kind of rare or not like what you'd get from that nearly-nonexistent real female friend.
Having friends is very important.
It is also important to find friends that are supportive and kind however, so if previous friends have been not friendly try and find new ones. Good places for this can be school/college (social clubs and groups more than classes), work, other social groups etc.
If you are in a period of isolation and going through issues please do reach out, it is far better to get support than try to tough it out alone.
A life without friends is pointless...
a moment of happiness soon fades if nt shared with friends and a phase of sadness stays long if not shared with friends...
you are never lonely if u have a friend... you have a solution to every problem if you have a friend...
any relationship is incomplete if it doesn't have the essence of friendship in it...
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I believe having 2 but no more than 4 solid friends ones who always have each other's back to the fullest. I believe to many friends bring to many problems. By keeping a small tight group of friends there is little to no chance of ever having a social problem. And keep in mind it's important to make best friends in life & bf's last a lifetime...
You need to find the right people. I got lucky that over the course of college I gradually found the right people, and things with these people actually went gradually uphill over time as opposed to all those times in my past where things went downhill over time
there isn't a real answer to your question... it's not pointless having friends, sometimes they are going to help you out... but sometimes there are gonna be some issues with them. It depends solely on you, because dealing with other people may hurt you. So in the end if I were in your shoes, I'll try too know more these acquaintances and maybe trying to create a true bond with them :) never give up
Its not a very bad thing overall. But if we have friend we experience completely different feelings. You can also get real friends. You want to talk about it? message me if yes
No not really. However, it is better than having friends who are problem.
No it's not a bad thing. Usually, people who make it out to be a bad thing have problems with themselves in the first place.
Having a few strong friends is always warranted :)
if you lack the ability to make friends
you also lack vital social skills needed to work with others.
this means you won't get promotion etc easily
I am feeling that you haven't got a true friend. When you'll have one, you'll realize the importance of it
i am the person who priorities friends much more over any other thing , even i place them above my family. for me friends are everything to me. if they were not there i would have been pointless
it's not bad, just lonely sometimes...
Have you been watching 13 reasons
We are all friends here :)
No is not pointless to have friends
I'll be your friend😊
No. Friends help you.
friends are useless
but buddies for life 😎
Not if there a true friend
I don't have real friends too
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