Texting/talking too much to girlfriend?

[chsdude]

Girls: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months now. I love her with everything I have, and she just isn't my girlfriend, but my best friend. I always want to talk to her and be in contact with her (talking/texting). I fear that if I cut back on texting/talking, our relationship will lose meaning. However, I know that I can extremely annoy her. I'm lost and don't know what to do. Thanks!

[sweeheart]

if you text her all the time she will think that you don't trust her if you always trying to talk and text her just tex her some times and be sure to be a little flirty and not so much a friend I hate it wene my boyfriend is always wanting to talk to me its like my parents always wondering what I'm doting just casuly text her but don't wait if she's the kind of girl who talks to herf friends for relationship advice they will tell her to wait for you to text and wait awile befor you talk 2 her me and my boyfriend have a time frame wene we talk 2 each other

[katieeelovesu]

Well. I am actually in a relationship almost 8 months-in a few hours ha. I went through something like what you are going through in the beginning of the relationship. I sort of felt like I was annoying my boyfriend & such. Even though I didn't want to & neither did he we both gave each other a little more space. We still hang out, speak on the phone & text-but much less. we don't have as much stress between us--we gain more trust. I think you should do what you think is best..but try it.

[chsdude]

Like she "brokeup" with me last night, but I have a strong feeling that she is going to come right back

[katieeelovesu]

Whats her reasoning of brekaing up with you though?

[tiny0678]

You already know what to do. You have to chill on the texting, it can end the relationship. It sounds like you "need" to talk to her, if you need her to much it won't be long before she starts seeing other guys that don't need her to be more attractive. Put your energy into something seperate from her for a while (sport/hobby) so you don't need to talk to her all the time! You will lose her if you don't.

[Anonymous]

Try cutting back just a little bit. When you know that you're annoying her or thinking that you are, just say you have to go and for HER to text you back later if she wants to talk. And texting/talking is just one part of a relationship that has to keep it going. If you cut back with it, it's not going to efficient your whole entire relationship. It could actually have you miss her more when you cut back on it.

[Anonymous]

I sometimes go days without texting by boyfriend, I do it because I don't want to annoy him, but really I want to be texting him. maybe she is the same, unless you know for sure that it is actually annoying her.

[Anonymous]

if you know that you are annoying her then why do you keep txting her? you should give her time to miss you.