My sister saw my boyfriend naked and I'm concerned about their behavior now or am I being paranoid?

[Anonymous]

Last night family got in town and the house is more crowed now so my boyfriend would sleep on the couch so my mom could take our bed with my sister. He had to work early so began sleeping in our bed and agreed to swap into the couch when the were ready for bed. A FEW HOURS later I woke him so he could switch to the couch. I was fixing the pillows and glanced up to see that he is completely naked casually walking down the hall towards the living room. That's when my sister passed by him but not before she paused to get a good look. Mom saw him too I know it but hasn't mentioned it. My sister hasn't either. Just feel like she would have said something to me about it. She is 15 and we have always been close yet she hides this from me

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Heh

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So today I've just kinda been kinda watching closer but waiting to see if anyone brings it up. I feel something everytime I enter a room and it appears they in mid convo or something. And they both seem super happy moods ugh.

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So after another week went by I had to know for sure what was up... we threw a bon fire together with a few friends and I pretended to get hammered and eventually pass out so I can see for myself how they acted when I wasn't around. After everyone left I saw them talking by the fire when they began to kiss. They made out with each other for about 5 mins b4 I called his cell phone to interupt them. I'm so lost and hurt! :(

[simonqq]

Maybe talk with your boyfriend about walking naked around your mom and sister. Your sister might have felt excitement about it or shyness but that's pretty normal for a girl in her age. Your mom I don't know but she might not want to make a big deal out of it.

My first concern would be your boyfriends behavior, even if let's say he is used to walking around naked he should probably know not to do it around your family and a 15 year old girl for that matter.

[Asker]

It was more of an accident really. And we did wake him up outta a dead sleep so we can take the bed. And when were at her house, they will walk to the bathroom nude during the night. So how can they be mad?

[simonqq]

Don't understand anything now. You wrote in an update that they kissed. Who is the they?

Also did you respond this after your update or before? I received your answer now one month later.

[Asker]

The they was my sister and boyfriend. Tbh I've been blocking it out or at least been trying to block it out but I can't. That's why the delayed response. Only other person I've talked to about it is his best friend and I've been thinking about getting with him to get back at my boyfriend.

[simonqq]

You wrote to me now just recently that it was an accident?

Also that's a terrible idea. I'd talk with your sister and let her know that you know and don't punish her but rather she needs to understand what she did was wrong. Then lastly you break up with him and don't even mention why just dump him.

Revenge won't do any good.

[Darkdragon79]

Does your boyfriend always walk around the house naked? Because you concerned that your sister hasn't said anything but not concerned that your mom said anything. I think your mom would said something before your sister would.

[boggboss]

Wait the only issue here is telling your boyfriend not to walk around naked why are you concerned with your sisters behaviour how is that what's got you parinoied

[Asker]

I meant it as both their behaviors ever since

[boggboss]

Ahahahahahahah he is cheating on you with your family nice

[Asker]

How is that fucking "nice" to you? Obviously you haven't been cheated on

[boggboss]

Because this story is fucking ludicrous

[foxrider77]

Sounds like a boyfriend problem not a sister problem.

[foxrider77]

Sister n boyfriend have a thing?

[foxrider77]

Wow I would drop the boyfriend and give sis the silent treatment. That’s low from the boyfriend. Just go for the hot guy at the gym or class. Hopefully he won’t leave you for your sister.

[Asker]

I'm gonna fuck his best friend I think. Maybe send my boyfriend a video of his best friend throat fucking me.

[foxrider77]

Yeah that would def make me jealous. Wear a cute thong that he liked then do the throat thing. Enjoy.

[ArnoldClark]

Doubt there's anything wrong. Probably either just a little giddy excitement or shyness.

[Hot_Mess_Express]

So your sister ever end up on his sausage? You kill either of em?

[Shamalien]

lol he's obviously stoked that he got peeped and she's clearly up to no good, I'd say you gotta separate these two right now

[Asker]

Aghh and I was just beginning to belive I was just being paranoid

[Shamalien]

Noooo you are not paranoid this is real wake up

[Jamie05rhs]

That fool needs to cover up. That was extremely careless on his part.

[Asker]

We had all been drinking and I woke him from a dead sleep

[Jamie05rhs]

Still, no excuse.

[Jamie05rhs]

Re: Update: Holy shit!! Well, I guess she's not getting any Christmas presents from you. And I sincerely hope that you've already dumped his ass.

[Asker]

I really dont know what to do :( how can I dump him? How do I even bring this up? What if there's more that I dont even know about. Maybe I should look at it as a one time no big deal thing? That's why I haven't brought it up yet.

[Jamie05rhs]

Honestly, you don't even have to bring it up. Just cut him off completely. I'm not for ghosting at all, but I think this is one situation where it would be appropriate. Cheaters don't deserve an explanation.