Ok long story short I went through his phone. On Snapchat in the search engine he looked up an old fling and old nudes were saved in the chat. I went into his recent chat messages and he hasn’t been in contact with her but clearly looking at her nudes sent to him back 3 years ago. He also looked up an old fling in his recents on insta. Should I be worried? I’m with him almost 3 years
It is understandable that you may feel upset and concerned after finding out that your boyfriend was looking at his ex's nudes. It's important to communicate your feelings and concerns with him in an open and honest way, and to prioritize your own well-being and boundaries in any relationship.
It's possible that your boyfriend may have been looking at the nudes out of curiosity, or that he may have saved them without realizing the potential impact on your relationship. However, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with him about why he was looking at the nudes and how it made you feel.
It's also worth considering whether this behavior is part of a larger pattern of behavior or if it is an isolated incident. If you feel that your trust has been broken or that your boundaries have been violated, it may be helpful to seek the support of a mental health professional or trusted advisor to help you navigate the situation and determine the best course of action.
Remember, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and to communicate your feelings and boundaries in any relationship. With open communication and mutual respect, it may be possible to work through this situation and build a stronger, healthier relationship.
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It's not uncommon sadly that porn is so prevalent, however it doesn't make it ok for everyone and being his ex is kinda messed up. Sounds like he's got some questionable friends giving him advice to. I can suggest a few things to do, if you want.
Lol I'd block her and delete those photos. Yea that's right call me petty
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If u felt the need to snoop through his phone clearly u already are worried so what are u actully asking
Based on your other comments here you need to have a serious talk with him. But you need to determine how much you actually trust him first.
Oh and by the way you shouldn't look on people's phones.
Why were you going through his phone? Do you let him go through your phone? There are privacy boundaries, you know.
I mean it isn’t uncommon for guys the look at porn, the fact he knew her probably made it a bit more fun. If he’s not contacting her then it’s not a problem, have u seen the pics?
@GirlsAskGuys1234 he gets horny and will remember nudes from the past. Have you talked to him about it?
Looking at nudes is looking at nudes, doesn't matter who it is as long as she's legal.
Horniness never killed someone just ask him to express it in other ways
uh yeah he wants to be with his ex and other women
It is better buzz in between body hopping.
Talk to him about that
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